#BDSM

The way I see people joking on here about the Armie Hammer texts ("I want to fuck him", "this is fake", etc.) when real women were emotionally, psychologically, and physically
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I’ve seen lots of people defending porn and BDSM on this website recently, and a lot of other people critiquing them for it. I feel like both sides miss something
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I think we need to actually emphasize that most BDSM does not take place in a "scene" or community and that the rates of people polled in various countries show
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there’s a time to ~ discourse ~ about the v. real ways shame, trauma, homophobia, transphobia + racism all intersect with our experiences of s_x, kinks, fetishes, + the way
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Hey I don't want to touch a discussion involving people I do not know, and do not know where perhaps actual beefs may lie.I can tell you as a PROFESSIONAL
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I've been thinking about this a lot recently & I wanted to share the thoughts with my fellow writers.Before adding a BDSM smut scene to ur plot-focused story, it's good
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A thing about both non-monogamy and BDSM is that while neither of them is inherently abusive, they can be easily wielded as tools of abuse, in a large part due
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AFTER CARE: SUB AND DOM DROPS. What you as a dom can do and what you as a sub could do (especially in ldr BDSM relationships).A thread.+ A sub drop
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lord fucking above the belle delphine shit has crossed the line. I've always kinda respected her hustle and everything but her normalising DANGEROUS bdsm practices is so fucked. if you're
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Welp. I wasn't gonna say anything but now that she's blocked me, I can go on a rant about how extremely bad of a take "bimbo is a slur" is!
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There are plenty of times I have consented unenthusiastically and it has been consent. There are a number of times I have been coerced and have had to feign enthusiasm
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How do you vet someone - A thread. First off, let me acknowledge the fact that this is from my perspective - someone who takes BDSM and the responsibility that
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I feel like I should say something about the Marilyn Manson and Armie Hammer situations. Because I know some kinky folks out there aren't thinking about how these powerful people
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A commenter brought to my attention that patreon has been cracking down on certain nsfw content when I mentioned trying to find a stable place for income.So I did some
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BDF’s BDSM EP#01:So last night was a first. One of the fundamentals we learn on our journey into BDSM is the importance of aftercare. The nature of the scenes we
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No discourse but Armie Hammer is a man who said he prefers rough sex but stopped wanting it with his wife because that’s the mother of his children and
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