This is what bothers me about so much of the seduction community: men want to seduce in ways that impress other men, not women.

They think putting in the least effort possible makes them better at it. They're fucking journeymen. There's no craftsmanship.

Seducing in a way that pleases a woman makes them a "beta," "supplicating"

Yeah there's that too. They come close enough that women will go the rest of the way. https://twitter.com/drnerdlove/status/918277139853692928

I mean... I can't really complain about what I permit

But is it fun? Sometimes I look at people's barely-furnished apartments and I'm like, did you forget that you live here?

I sit in my balcony garden looking at the neighbors' balconies- storage for bikes, junk, all the same plastic venetian blinds in the windows

Holy shit this is your LIFE. This is your HOME. What are you building?? Did you forget that you have a body??

How are you gonna show me what inspires you and then not actually live it? Where's the light in your eyes?

I could cry. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only living person on the planet.