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You ever realize that your lifestyle just doesn’t fit into certain spaces and relationships anymore? Cause yea.
Lot of shit that I used to be cool with just turns me off now and makes me think of how I’ll be setting myself 10 steps back reverting to an old lifestyle.
Thanks, Mercury Retrograde. I guess you’re kinda useful.
It’s bittersweet cause like damn...I’m clearly getting older and my priorities are changing.
There’s no judgment in recognizing that y’all are just different. It’s just an observation.
It’s like I’m the same but I’m not.
Now I have a better understanding of why my mom + married friends stopped coming around as much during my peak single season. Our lives were no longer the same.
At one point, I harbored a lot of resentment because of the distance these life changes created but now I accept it as a part of life + growing older.
Relationships just be going through seasons and as humans we tend to personalize someone else’s actions + behaviors when they don’t have shit to do with us.
I’ve been that friend that creates this whole scenario of someone not fuckin with me anymore just because the dynamic of the relationship changed. That shit used to trigger the fuck out of my abandonment wound.
I get it now and I’m so grateful to have reached this point within my own life where I can hold space for people knowing that regardless of the changing dynamics it’s still love.
Whew! Navigating relationships in our 20s is sum’n else. Some of us are in school. Others are working. Some have families. Others are traveling the world. It’s a lot but it’s all so beautiful seeing people live THEIR lives.
Even if I don’t see you like that anymore just know it’s all love. I ain’t got no animosity just cause we don’t kick it like we used to.
I hope you think of the good times when I cross your mind.
lmfao why do I hear that corny ass graduation ceremony song playing in my head?
