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Black women and girls, you are not undesirable! Don't believe those who tell you that! People tell you you're undesirable in order to discourage you from raising your standards and dating out. We're not that undesirable and we can raise our desirability! Here's how we can:
1. Stop being racially loyal!
Stop limiting your dating pool to only Black men and start being more open to dating out. When other races of men see you're more open to dating them they'll get more interested in dating you thus raising your desirability.
Stop limiting your dating pool to only Black men and start being more open to dating out. When other races of men see you're more open to dating them they'll get more interested in dating you thus raising your desirability.
2. Do better, look better, and be better!
Improve as much of yourself as possible. Improve your health, appearance, personality, intelligence, finances, life, and anything else about yourself. Embrace femininity and your natural beauty. Work to be a better version of yourself.
Improve as much of yourself as possible. Improve your health, appearance, personality, intelligence, finances, life, and anything else about yourself. Embrace femininity and your natural beauty. Work to be a better version of yourself.
3. Raise your standards and don't allow yourself to be so easy to get.
Black women having low standards and being easy to get has led them to nothing but abuse and being used.
Black women having low standards and being easy to get has led them to nothing but abuse and being used.
Raise your standards and unapologetically reject those who don't meet it. Don't settle! Women who have higher standards and aren't easy to get are valued and desired more by men.
4. Promote yourself and black women as a whole.
Black women have been put in a bad light for far too long and it's now time for us to shine! Show the world the best side of you and us! Get into fashion and start wearing stylish, vibrant, elegant, beautiful, etc clothes.
Black women have been put in a bad light for far too long and it's now time for us to shine! Show the world the best side of you and us! Get into fashion and start wearing stylish, vibrant, elegant, beautiful, etc clothes.
Wear jewelry, accessories, and nice shoes. Grow out your hair and rock it in its natural state and in various hairstyles. Improve your makeup. Be high maintenance. Post high quality pictures and videos of yourself online. Promote other black women online.
For the creative and artistic black women out there, center your art, animations, stories, etc around black women.
For the black women in positions to create movies, tv shows, commercials, tv channels, music videos, magazines, ads, etc, center black women in your works and projects.
For the black women who are performers, hire black women as your backup singers and dancers.
For the black women who own businesses, put black women on your logos and products. Create items that imitate black women like dolls. Hire black women as models for your products.
As black women, we are severely deprived of positive representation and promotion. We need to put our faces in and on as many positive things as possible in order to boost our collective image and desirability.
5. Sit back, relax, and watch who you attract.
Don't let finding a man consume your life. Live your life to the fullest and you will attract men along the way. Don't pursue men. Let men pursue you.
Don't let finding a man consume your life. Live your life to the fullest and you will attract men along the way. Don't pursue men. Let men pursue you.
