Looks like I'm we're having the convo.

If my partner is doing something vigorously and I go from the build-up of a soft voice to keening, it's kind of obvious but not frank I approve.

Consent can be the difference of I would like that to FUCK YES!

But maybe this is semantics. https://twitter.com/thesquirrelfish/status/1362219896378068999

And what I think I'm saying here is that consent is adaptable in real life. It can be clear without something emphatic, even tho I know that's the kind of rule of thumb.

And we are writers can show that in fiction.

Just as easily as can show the consent was clear.

*was not clear