To 22+ men, learn game, we live in a cold world, here are a few pointers on where to start.
Be you own mental point of origin. This simply means put yourself first and do not self deprecate/depreciate. There’s no reward for heroes in real life.
Be you own mental point of origin. This simply means put yourself first and do not self deprecate/depreciate. There’s no reward for heroes in real life.
Never seek “ultimate” fulfilment from your associations with women, at their very core nature, they love opportunistically. The burden of performance placed on you to be their subservient has a horrible ROI. Their nature (facilitated by hypergamy and solipsism) is unforgiving.
Have multiple women (decent options, not hoes) in your circle that you could potentially be romantically involved with. This eradicates the probability of pedastiling one woman and treating her as your god. They despise this. Never make her the centre of your world.
She can’t play mind games with you if you carry yourself in a way that implies you have options. Competition creates anxiety and consequently compels one to want to outperform their competitors, she’ll act right for you (provided you a commanding sexual market value).
You should always be ready and not be oblivious to the fact that she may decide to leave you (as long as she can rationalise this through her hypergamous nature), you must ALWAYS imply that you’re okay with losing her. Do not overtly communicate this. Demonstrate it.
Understand that your past performances (great gestures of gifting etc) do not solidify your position in her life or guarantee future continued association. It’s the NOW that matters, not then. (Continued..)
You must constantly prove or at least have potential to provide for her on a consistent basis. Do not subscribe to this if you’re into casual dating. Only applicable in potential long term relationships.
Never negotiate genuine desire. A crush giving you a runaround? She doesn’t feel you, let go! don’t wait to be told point blank (it’ll knock your confidence). You can’t talk someone into getting with you. You’ll go to extreme lengths for her validation and end up alone still.
Lastly, women are not your friends. The idealised loyalty you expect and high moral ground you hold them on will come back to bite you if not managed properly. Always be in a position (limit emotional investment) to withstand any betrayal that may occur. You should be fine.
Women are safer in an environment where men know who exactly they’re dealing with. No funny idealisations. You never hate and want to punish a bee for stinging you. You may be irked but that’s about it, you go on about your day bc you know it’s its nature to sting.
You must understand that women do not have a detailed master plan to go out of their way to hurt you,while their actions may, on some conscious level, be deliberate. They are emotional beings and are dictated by their needs of a myriad of things(provision,security and protection)
This shouldn’t get you upset, it’s their nature. While some women may suppress or opt to carefully manage their hypergamous nature, a fair majority will not hesitate to act on this impulsive nature as their survival (for lack of a better word) depends on it (not literally).
All you have to do is to be aware of it and take all precautionary steps and prepare yourself to be in a position to handle any unfavourable outcome.
God bless and enjoy your relations with women
God bless and enjoy your relations with women
