Sorry, this is gaslighting. No one was asking for their input and everyone was aware they were doing a separate (far less successful) thing that was still fun. They went out of their way to slap down the people who'd been having fun *with* them for no reason. Receipts incoming.
Let's start here. They were told. End of. Rather than clarifying *before* the event (or just not saying anything against it) they continued to use it for clout, Cameo, etc...
Looks like it was someone else who didn't get the memo.
Looks like it was someone else who didn't get the memo.
Speaks for itself - whipping up enthusiasm specifically AROUND the #DeanCasWedding
Instead of taking this opportunity to say "not what we're doing, but cool that you are".
Instead of taking this opportunity to say "not what we're doing, but cool that you are".
Cute, funny, but note "bachelor party" and look at the rest of this thread. This was after most of the others.
Not confirmable, but this person has given me 0 reason to doubt them, as opposed to this whole thread which speaks for itself. I'll Occam's Razor this and say he probably did say that.
https://twitter.com/isearch4horcrux/status/1361057838559203328
https://twitter.com/isearch4horcrux/status/1361057838559203328
Not getting into the "I'm your huckleberry" or the other deancas stuff from people they were interacting with bc they're not responsible for what other people say.
But he could have clarified here. He chose not to but to instead kept hyping around the wedding.
But he could have clarified here. He chose not to but to instead kept hyping around the wedding.
OK - Confirmation on the Cameo from the 14th:
(Chad) "Thank you so I-I'll see you soon- I'll see you at the Roadhouse tonight OK?"
(Fan) "Absolutely, for the wedding!"
(Chad) "Yeees!"
Thank you for sharing the audio, Monica!
Anymore questions anyone? https://twitter.com/isearch4horcrux/status/1361729844342480902
(Chad) "Thank you so I-I'll see you soon- I'll see you at the Roadhouse tonight OK?"
(Fan) "Absolutely, for the wedding!"
(Chad) "Yeees!"
Thank you for sharing the audio, Monica!
Anymore questions anyone? https://twitter.com/isearch4horcrux/status/1361729844342480902
This is what gaslighting looks like.
How hard is a "Sorry, I didn't see how this would look to you or mean to invalidate anyone" ?
Very hard it seems, because, based on this, it would be a lie.
Do. Better.
How hard is a "Sorry, I didn't see how this would look to you or mean to invalidate anyone" ?
Very hard it seems, because, based on this, it would be a lie.
Do. Better.
Liked after all the drama went down. I can't find people who asked them to "confirm or deny". I can find threads of people making it clear they appreciate there being no confirmation/denial, though. With explanations as to why it would be hurtful.