Thread by @vantaebbyy, things that trigger overthinkers, coming from an overthinker;a thread so ofc everyone's [...]

things that trigger overthinkers, coming from an overthinker;
a thread

so ofc everyone's different and some things here can be just too much but it's bcz I overthink every single thing so u don't have to relate to everything okay? Anyway enjoyyyy

So if you're having like the same energy with someone as u have with us, that can make us think that were not special to you or something or maybe that you like this person better and were not enough

when u have like your “thing” that u just always do or say and then u do the same thing with some other person, this too can make us think we're not as important as we thought we were ik it's stupid

When u stop texting first or when u start using shorts like “ilysm” rather than the whole sentence, it can make us think u lost interest in us and were not as important as we were

When you call someone else the same nickname u have for us, the same thing like above

When you don't text back for a while and after returning you never say why u disappearing idk it makes us think u were talking to someone else and they were just more fun to talk to

also the slightest difference in your attitude make us think we did something wrong and doesn't matter how many times u explain we didn't, well still think we did and you're just being nice out of pity

Also some facts, we cry about every single thing and we always think there's someone better, we need a lot of attention and we apologise over small things, we're too sensitive and we always think we're not enough or not doing enough, we also feel like we're annoying-

-for checking up in you too much or just over the stupidest shit we do we just think it makes u annoyed or makes us look like obsessed

Andnow some thinks you can do to make over thinkers feel better :) so first of all u don't even know how much the “good morning I love you” texts mean to us

Show us u care about us like ask if we ate or if we're feeling okay today

As I said we apologize for everything so if we do don't say lmao it's okay but reassure us that whatever we said is valid and that we don't have to be sorry

We need some extra attention :/

And last but not least, we're ever thinking bcz probably someone in he last broke our trust so, don't break it again okay?

And at the end a fun fact, you actually can never hurt an over thinker cuz they already saw everything coming :)

If you're dating an over thinker or if you're close to one, then reading this helps a lot with understanding

okay so this blew tf up- so first of all i can reply to everyone but im so grateful for the Feedback and I’m so glad people feel better after reading this it makes my heart warm cuz it was my intention actually so thank y'all , I love you have a great day babies