every time i'm looking into a rape, a sexual assault, a sex crime that has gone unpunished, when i contact bit players to ask about minor details, you know what they always say? "i'm not a part of this, i don't want to be dragged into this, leave me out of this"
newsflash assholes: you don't get a choice as to what you're a part of in life. you're brought into this world without any agreement, and you're buffeted about by forces of history and nature until eventually time unceremoniously dumps you into your grave
you're minding your own business, you're at a party, you're in a grocery store, you're driving in your car — and something happens: a crime, a sin, an accident. you're now a part of it. doesn't matter if you like it or not. your only choice is how to react.
"waah don't call me don't quote me don't use my name i don't want to be a part of this, leave me out of it!!" sorry babe, talk to the chaplain!!! i didn't bring you into anything, that was fate. can you nut up and navigate adversity instead of trying to hide FOR ONCE IN YOUR LIFE
anyway sorry for the darkposting and the sincereposting