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If y'all yt passers don't stop trauma dumping under every single connected Native's tweets about their life or opinions, nobody is ever going to like you.
Srsly every single fuckin 1 somebody like "*sob* but what about MY personal exception, Ive always struggled because...." +12 tweet long story of sum1 mostly blond & green eyed cryin. Like frfr I'd have more compassion if it wasn't constantly the only narrative
Stop asking for stranger's labor and validation on the internet and put just like an ounce of your own work in. Just an ounce. Then when you reach out you sound like less of an entitled whiney ass.
It's super easy to ask for help and allow people to decide to help you. You have to earn that trust. There is some stuff i don't have access to and may never earn it sucks. but i'm not gonna stress out other Ntvs about *MY* shit. Obviously my Black Ntv ass has different rules tho
I can't even like open and read they whole thread without seeing that same poster have to spend the next several hours apologizing and validating people. Just let our Cuzzins live and express themselves for one day!
Tbh many tradish people of the millennial age group are really tight about being supportive of reconnectors and I can put out a PSA for material or asking for help to teach my nieces and The People show up. Asking rather than demanding space matters in reconnection
I am honestly so embarrassed by some of y'all conduct around this, the disrespect in that behavior embarrasses me for yall
I am trying to sit back, listen, and learn how to be Tsalagi, how to connect and uphold my community. The entitlement is making it super hard for those of us actually putting in the time, patience, and oftentimes painful honesty of reconnection, to do this in a genuine way
