As Valentines Day is coming up, this is worth pondering on.

Don’t go into a relationship thinking you can change the other person.

If you think they need to change, it’s not the right relationship.

Don’t think they’ll change for you when they’re more committed/ married.

If they’re not * it* already, it’s not going to happen.

Are you being pressured to move the relationship forward faster than you’d like?
Slow down.
A love that will last doesn’t need to be rushed.

You’re not responsible for someone else’s happiness, nor are they for yours.

Treat people the way you’d like to be treated and don’t accept being made to feel you’re less than.

You don’t have to be in that relationship because you’re scared you’d otherwise end up alone.

It is incredibly lonely being in the wrong relationship.

Love yourself the way you’d want to be loved.