... i dunno y’all, cis allies adding cutesy, casual shit to their pronouns is such a non-issue that the idea of calling it an actual *microaggression* feels mind-boggling

who cares if some cis chick jots down “she/her/princess” on her bio, at least her highness thought abt it

the idea u can’t have fun w/ pronouns or ur gender is just so dumb & exhausting INCLUDING FOR CIS PPL

i’d like it if we favored being fun, creative, & accepting over Super Rigid Guidelines 4 Cis (TM)

this is a few steps forward, but the few detransitioned ppl i’ve talked to (who weren’t cultish R/Fs) oft tried to transition bc they wanted to explore gender & their place in it, but were told by hard exclud types that ur only a Valid Tran if u med-transition, which...

so like, maybe we shouldn’t be so goddamn strict abt gender performance anymore, idk