I am of the camp that celibacy isn’t going to do anything that discernment + discipline won’t.

You don’t need to deprive yourself of pleasure. You need to be more intentional with how and with whom you pursue pleasure.

Proper discernment is going to create a hell of a dry spell anyway bc you don’t regularly run into people who are worthy of you or good for you.

You ignoring everything terrible for affection and sex and then try to find some good in them so you can stay

Celibacy isn’t an effective solution.
It puts a bandaid on the wound that is your inability to make good decisions for yourself.

You have to keep sex on the table and teach yourself to ignore your screaming loins because the options in front of you are trash and you want better

Celibacy seems like an answer to the problem but it’s not because unless you are an actual sex addict, sex is not the issue, YOU are.

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