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A lot of women are confused about why men are different from them, and some men conflicted about their nature. So, here are a few pointers.
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A lot of women are confused about why men are different from them, and some men conflicted about their nature. So, here are a few pointers.
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1.
Naturally, men tend to be idealistic in love.
They form a mental image of the perfect lady, then project that image unto the woman they are with.
This effectively ignores all her flaws and puts her on a pedestal. This is why most men find it hard to believe when she cheats
Naturally, men tend to be idealistic in love.
They form a mental image of the perfect lady, then project that image unto the woman they are with.
This effectively ignores all her flaws and puts her on a pedestal. This is why most men find it hard to believe when she cheats
2.
Men communicate directly.
If a man doesn’t like you, he’ll tell you straight to your face, and if you don’t like how he says it you may as well throw a punch and let it roll. More confrontational and direct is why men start wars and not women.
Men communicate directly.
If a man doesn’t like you, he’ll tell you straight to your face, and if you don’t like how he says it you may as well throw a punch and let it roll. More confrontational and direct is why men start wars and not women.
3.
When a guy has a close female friend, 90%+ of the time he wants to have sex with her. 99% of men would agree to it if their female friend asked to have sex. This is why being friends with a woman is usually not genuine for men
Usually hoping for some action in the future.
When a guy has a close female friend, 90%+ of the time he wants to have sex with her. 99% of men would agree to it if their female friend asked to have sex. This is why being friends with a woman is usually not genuine for men
Usually hoping for some action in the future.
Possibility of him drugging and raping her is REAL
Women keep male friends because they enjoy male attention and validation: orbiters
This increases their self-esteem. The men they keep around are usually looking for sex but clueless on how to get it.
Women keep male friends because they enjoy male attention and validation: orbiters
This increases their self-esteem. The men they keep around are usually looking for sex but clueless on how to get it.
4.
Men want superiority. Men enjoy leading; they enjoy being looked up to. When subjugated, they either lose their masculinity or rebel.
Boys become rebellious once they start experiencing their first surge in testosterone levels, usually during puberty
Men want superiority. Men enjoy leading; they enjoy being looked up to. When subjugated, they either lose their masculinity or rebel.
Boys become rebellious once they start experiencing their first surge in testosterone levels, usually during puberty
This is why we have more male criminals/con artists than women – rebellion and determination to get their way regardless of the odds
Women can be shamed into compliance because they care about their public image. But a man needs to be incentivized in order not to do something.
Men don’t mind being seen as scum as long as they get their way. Zero care for public image. This is why more men fight in public.
Men don’t mind being seen as scum as long as they get their way. Zero care for public image. This is why more men fight in public.
5.
Males are naturally protective of the female gender. This is why a 14-year-old boy would fight a grown man to protect his mother, while a 14-year-old girl won’t (most of the time).
Being physically stronger, naturally, they instinctively take it as their responsibility
Males are naturally protective of the female gender. This is why a 14-year-old boy would fight a grown man to protect his mother, while a 14-year-old girl won’t (most of the time).
Being physically stronger, naturally, they instinctively take it as their responsibility
6.
Both men and women can be hypocrites.
But, it’s not possible for men to convince themselves they aren’t hypocritical when they behave as such. Women can convince themselves they aren’t wrong even when they are. Men can’t
A man will be aware of his own BS, even denial
Both men and women can be hypocrites.
But, it’s not possible for men to convince themselves they aren’t hypocritical when they behave as such. Women can convince themselves they aren’t wrong even when they are. Men can’t
A man will be aware of his own BS, even denial
7.
Men are polygamous.
Many hate to admit this. *I'm not endorsing polygamy*
Men like having more than one woman at a time. Unlike a woman, who can only form an emotional bond with one man at a time, a man can love more than one woman without diminishing his love for either
Men are polygamous.
Many hate to admit this. *I'm not endorsing polygamy*
Men like having more than one woman at a time. Unlike a woman, who can only form an emotional bond with one man at a time, a man can love more than one woman without diminishing his love for either
8.
Men can have sex **without emotional attachments** and without having to be desensitized.
For a woman to do this, she’d have to be desensitized (traumatized to the point where she no longer feels anything)--- e.g. prostitutes
Men can have sex **without emotional attachments** and without having to be desensitized.
For a woman to do this, she’d have to be desensitized (traumatized to the point where she no longer feels anything)--- e.g. prostitutes
This is because men can have sex for the sake of sex alone, but women need to form an emotional bond before having sex
Also why when a woman cheats, the relationship would most likely fail.
Also why when a woman cheats, the relationship would most likely fail.
9.
Most breakups are initiated by the woman because although a man may no longer be interested in the relationship, he’s most likely to ‘not want to hurt her’
Being protective, he drags on. But a woman will call it quits as soon as she no longer finds the relationship appealing
Most breakups are initiated by the woman because although a man may no longer be interested in the relationship, he’s most likely to ‘not want to hurt her’
Being protective, he drags on. But a woman will call it quits as soon as she no longer finds the relationship appealing
A lot of men feel remorse even after years of breakup and are most likely to accept if their ex asks to come back
Women move on faster (as soon as she forms a strong emotional bond with another, she would have forgotten him), depending on how strong she bonded with him
Women move on faster (as soon as she forms a strong emotional bond with another, she would have forgotten him), depending on how strong she bonded with him
10.
Men want power, women want attention.
When a man gets power, he will use it to get what he wants. Which is usually a long list of things that make him look even more powerful. Men tend to be more egotistic because society only values powerful men.
Men want power, women want attention.
When a man gets power, he will use it to get what he wants. Which is usually a long list of things that make him look even more powerful. Men tend to be more egotistic because society only values powerful men.
A weak man is resented by all, including by himself
Not even men care about men’s wellbeing, but everyone protects the female
This is why many men like to brag. They want to be appreciated and seen as competent and valuable
Not even men care about men’s wellbeing, but everyone protects the female
This is why many men like to brag. They want to be appreciated and seen as competent and valuable
11.
A man can concede in an argument without feeling shame or anything, but when it comes to conceding against someone he considers **below him** the ego usually gets bruised
because it is telling of either incompetence or lack of legitimacy. Men care about their competence
A man can concede in an argument without feeling shame or anything, but when it comes to conceding against someone he considers **below him** the ego usually gets bruised
because it is telling of either incompetence or lack of legitimacy. Men care about their competence
12.
If a man is not sexually attracted to a woman, chances that he will be in the future are practically 0
Men idealize physical appearance in women. Not attracted = doesn't fit his idealized image
Women think if they sleep with a man he’ll love them more. Nope
If a man is not sexually attracted to a woman, chances that he will be in the future are practically 0
Men idealize physical appearance in women. Not attracted = doesn't fit his idealized image
Women think if they sleep with a man he’ll love them more. Nope
13.
The same reason there are more men in prisons than women is why there are also more men in high political/corporate positions than women, and also why men are responsible for most of humanity's progress technologically and otherwise
The same reason there are more men in prisons than women is why there are also more men in high political/corporate positions than women, and also why men are responsible for most of humanity's progress technologically and otherwise
That reason is that ‘men take more risks and are aggressively determined in a direct manner to get what they want.’
High T is responsible
High T is responsible
14.
Every man wants to be the king of something. It doesn’t matter how small the domain, men want something they can say ‘I’m in control of this. This is mine. I’m king here.’
Women don’t usually care about this as long as they get attention and what they want
Every man wants to be the king of something. It doesn’t matter how small the domain, men want something they can say ‘I’m in control of this. This is mine. I’m king here.’
Women don’t usually care about this as long as they get attention and what they want
15.
Men love competition more than the prize.
This is why most athletic games, sports, and mental games were invented by men.
Men enjoying comparing their abilities against other men, and want to be seen as competent by other men
Men love competition more than the prize.
This is why most athletic games, sports, and mental games were invented by men.
Men enjoying comparing their abilities against other men, and want to be seen as competent by other men
