Thread: As a high school senior, I once took my then girlfriend up to La Jolla for a "fancy" breakfast at a restaraunt basically on the beach in La Jolla. I was wearing a Chargers hat, and Marty Schottenheimer, who had JUST been fired by the Chargers, sat down at the next table.
I saw him and freaked out, but didn't want to be THAT guy, so said nothing. He definitely caught me staring a time or two through the meal, and gave me a nod and pointed at his forehead, acknowledging my Charger hat.
We ate breakfast, no interaction but way too much weird and awkward eye contact. I was petrified. As we were settling up the bill (Marty was still eating,) he stopped his breakfast and came over to our table. Again, I am a high school senior and petrified.
He'd been fired maybe 3 days prior. He came up, and said "nice hat, young man. You look like a ball player yourself."
I replied "Yes sir, I play at Coronado High School."
"Are you guys any good?" asked Marty.
"We were 9-1 last year."
"So what are you doing to eliminate that L?"
"We're in the weight room, watching film and working hard, coach." I said.
"Attaboy!" Marty exclaims and puts out a hand.
I high five him. He looks puzzled.
"I assumed you wanted me to sign your hat. Is that ok?"
I am flabbergasted.
He signs the hat, shakes my hand and says something like "Keep at it, young man. Hard work matters."

I'm over the moon. What an awesome interaction. I leave, call my parents and some friends to tell them all the story, don't even look at the sig.
He signed the hat: "Don't go 14-2. - Marty"

Again, he was fired by the team like 4 days before. He saw a shy high school kid, went out of his way to talk to me, encouraged me, and left it all with a hilarious joke.

I'm not going to claim I knew Marty
I had a lot of issues with his coaching. But god DAMN did he go out of his way to make some random kids day. You can see a glimpse of why his players absolutely adored him in that interaction. He cared. He made his players care. And he did it with panache. RIP Coach.
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