HOW THEY MET.
My mom was a very outgoing person during her youthful days. She went out a lot and attended parties. My dad on the other hand was a workaholic and he wasn't very outgoing. He only went out with friends once in a while- mostly weekends.
My mom was a very outgoing person during her youthful days. She went out a lot and attended parties. My dad on the other hand was a workaholic and he wasn't very outgoing. He only went out with friends once in a while- mostly weekends.
They met for the first time at a party through a mutual friend. He was from the same hometown with my dad. They all say together at the party.
He did the introduction, and then told my dad that she was from nearby town.
My dad was already attracted to her beauty...
He did the introduction, and then told my dad that she was from nearby town.
My dad was already attracted to her beauty...
...he became more interested in knowing her when he heard that because his decision was to either marry a woman from his town or a nearby one.
Asides that, my mum had the physical features he wanted in a woman- dark, slim, and beautiful.
Asides that, my mum had the physical features he wanted in a woman- dark, slim, and beautiful.
They got to know basic things about each other, including where she lived. They met after the party.
There was another party two weeks after, and they both decided to attend.
They started visiting each other. Her mum knew him, and her dad too.
There was another party two weeks after, and they both decided to attend.
They started visiting each other. Her mum knew him, and her dad too.
My mum visited my dad on weekends. He was living in a family house, so she saw his siblings and his mum whenever she visited.
She got on well with some of his siblings and was very close to one of his sisters.
She got on well with some of his siblings and was very close to one of his sisters.
My dad made up his mind to finally get married after he realized she was 'the one'. He asked her to marry him.
She wanted it, but she couldn't give a response immediately because she was scared her dad wouldn't agree due to her age. She was 21.
She wanted it, but she couldn't give a response immediately because she was scared her dad wouldn't agree due to her age. She was 21.
She told her mum, who gladly told her dad. Surprisingly, he didn't object to it.
He said my dad was a good person and would make a good husband, plus he knew my dad's family.
Our village is small, so everyone knows everyone.
He said my dad was a good person and would make a good husband, plus he knew my dad's family.
Our village is small, so everyone knows everyone.
She visited my dad again and have him a positive response. she told him her dad (my grandfather) wanted to see him.
My dad went to see my grandfather, they had a discussion concerning the marriage. My dad asked for the marriage list. My grandfather had it ready before that day.
My dad went to see my grandfather, they had a discussion concerning the marriage. My dad asked for the marriage list. My grandfather had it ready before that day.
My dad prepared, and went back with his family. He paid my mum's dowry, did the needful. That was all.
There was no party and they've been happily married with four children.
Thank you for Reading.
B.I
There was no party and they've been happily married with four children.
Thank you for Reading.
B.I