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Just because your relationship is Dlozi induced (and most of them will be) that doesn't mean it's a perfect fit. The Dlozi influence is largely driven by history. You as individuals still need to put in effort to make it work. Sometimes it doesn't work. Sometimes it does.
The Dlozis we each walk with will influence the paths that we cross. It's not an official stamp that you must indeed stay together.
Sometimes you cross paths just because of who you both walk with and history is simply being repeated. That's what happens with the ancestral, you will sometimes walk where they walked.
But that doesn't automatically make it a fit. Automony is still a thing. Think/feel for yourself. You're not here to simply repeat all patterns. Choose what's healthy for you always. The ones that love you will support that. Lean into your healthy guides as a general life rule.
Sometimes you cross paths because you are to build a legacy together. Other times it's because something is being rectified. Or a certain purpose is being fulfilled. Other times it's simply because history is repeating itself, nifuze amadlozi wenu.
The list goes on. There are so many reasons around the "Why" so your discernment is important. Whatever you do, don't simply accept an unhealthy relationship just because that's what your ancestors chose. That's kinda weird. Be the one who changes the toxic pattern.
Not all history must be repeated or remain the same. Summon your healthy guides to redirect cycles.
