In any given social circle, there will be people that will try to put you down just for the sake of it
Those petty power games are attempts to trigger your emotional side and diminish from your value.
At all times, remain calm and composed.
Those petty power games are attempts to trigger your emotional side and diminish from your value.
At all times, remain calm and composed.
When someone is trying to put you down by making fun of you
Laughing about it might look like the easiest way to cope but by doing so you allow them to go on
The best thing to do in such situations is to force a heavy silence and give the person an insisting stare
Laughing about it might look like the easiest way to cope but by doing so you allow them to go on
The best thing to do in such situations is to force a heavy silence and give the person an insisting stare
Once the silence makes everyone uncomfortable, it is time to answer
In order to make their words valueless, you will rephrase what they just said as a question
Show that it's nonsense.
BUT don't expect an answer, as they start answering look elsewhere, talk to someone else
In order to make their words valueless, you will rephrase what they just said as a question
Show that it's nonsense.
BUT don't expect an answer, as they start answering look elsewhere, talk to someone else
The point being that once you ask that question; you ignore them for the rest of the time you'll spend with them
Acting like the person just doesn't exist will make them question themselves
Do not give in to their petty games.
Be above everything.
Acting like the person just doesn't exist will make them question themselves
Do not give in to their petty games.
Be above everything.
This process allows you to:
-Silence everyone and give value to your words
-Diminish the person using their own words
-Control your emotional reactions and stay in control of yourself
-Signal to everyone that you don't fuck around
Stay calm but dont let anyone step on your toes
-Silence everyone and give value to your words
-Diminish the person using their own words
-Control your emotional reactions and stay in control of yourself
-Signal to everyone that you don't fuck around
Stay calm but dont let anyone step on your toes
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