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BDSM 101: RACK(risk aware consensual kink) dictates that any Dom worth his salt will see to the SAFETY of his sub/little and NEVER push them past what they are willing to do. That includes hard and soft limits 1/5
Hard limits are things that a sub/little absolutely will not do; soft limits are things that they might do under certain circumstances. ALL of this is agreed-upon prior. Drugs/alcohol are a NO GO. A Dom on drugs/alcohol can’t be in control. A sub on drug/alcohol can’t consent 2/5
Therefore anything MM did that breached his Littles’ boundaries, whether any of them were or weren’t on drugs, is automatically abuse. He cannot hide under the BDSM label. He’s the type of Dom the BDSM community would eject 3/5
FURTHERMORE, there is no such thing as blanket consent. Just because he is in the BDSM lifestyle, even if the sub is, not everything is a GO. This is why there are such things as safewords. 4/5
You can revoke consent at any time; just bc you’re a sub does not mean Dom can do any and everything he wants no matter what. The minute anything passes your boundaries, you give a safe word or signal. If he ignores it, that’s abuse. Same for breaching hard limits. 5/5
