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The 3 Stages of Envy
Envy is a slithering snake in tall grass
Become aware of it in order to stop it
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Envy is a slithering snake in tall grass
Become aware of it in order to stop it
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In the world of social media
Envy is everywhere.
When we compare ourselves to others
We let’s envy’s grip take hold
This brings on stage 1: Scarcity
Envy is everywhere.
When we compare ourselves to others
We let’s envy’s grip take hold
This brings on stage 1: Scarcity
Stage 1: Scarcity
When we see someone else achieve
We begin to feel as if there is less out there for ourselves
We see a friend get married and think
“There’s no one out there for me”
This thinking leads us to stage 2
When we see someone else achieve
We begin to feel as if there is less out there for ourselves
We see a friend get married and think
“There’s no one out there for me”
This thinking leads us to stage 2
Stage 2: Feeling Unworthy
We ask ourselves
“Why hasn’t this happened to me?”
“If I was worthy, then it would have happened already”
Self worth begins to drop.
This stage of envy has long lasting effects.
To projects ourselves
We move to stage 3
We ask ourselves
“Why hasn’t this happened to me?”
“If I was worthy, then it would have happened already”
Self worth begins to drop.
This stage of envy has long lasting effects.
To projects ourselves
We move to stage 3
Stage 3: Resentment
Resentment is the feeling of being treated unfairly.
This is your ego talking.
To protect ourselves
We push away the people who make us feel envy
But In the end
only end up hurting ourselves
by pushing away our loved ones
Resentment is the feeling of being treated unfairly.
This is your ego talking.
To protect ourselves
We push away the people who make us feel envy
But In the end
only end up hurting ourselves
by pushing away our loved ones
So how do we kill the snake?
Envy is best conquered
By comparison of oneself.
Ask yourself,
“How do I compare to myself of 3 years ago?”
Envy is best conquered
By comparison of oneself.
Ask yourself,
“How do I compare to myself of 3 years ago?”
A LOT can happen and change
in 3 years.
Comparing yourself to your past
helps us appreciate our achievements.
Spot envy from the distance
And end the comparisons for good.
END
in 3 years.
Comparing yourself to your past
helps us appreciate our achievements.
Spot envy from the distance
And end the comparisons for good.
END
