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Many men think they know what they are doing when it comes to women.

Few actually do.

Use this shared wisdom for good.

If you want to use women, be an alpha asshole. That's not as heartbreaking.

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There are 4 elements to make them fall for you:

1. The Look
2. The Interaction
3. The Time-In-Between
4. The Sex

To keep it short and spicy, this will be a 2 part series.

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We all want to be loved and adored to some extend.

There is lots of alpha bro talk advice on Twitter on how to get laid,

but that's something very different than making a woman fall in love.
It's easy to be an alpha asshole and attract emotionally unstable women with daddy issues.

Been there, done that.

But if you want to attract high-class women, you need a different game.
Let's look at what actually happens when she falls in love.

It's like a drug.

Behavior, situations, and actions produce chemical reactions in our brain.

Dopamine and oxytocin mostly. Euphoria happens. Attachment builds, most of it on an unconscious level at this point.
When the other is not around, she won't feel as good.

That's the withdrawal of the feel-good chemicals and the start to crave more.

Voila!
Sounds simple. It's not. There are many ways a man can fuck up because women are complicated creatures. Duh!

Be honest about your intentions.

That's just fair.
The Look

So let's get into the easy stuff.

The first and very important thing is how a man looks.
You need to be dressed and groomed well.

There is no way around it. Even if you look like Tom Brady or Ryan Gosling.
First impressions decide if she moves on to the next guy, or if she continues talking to you and you need to be visually appealing for her to say yes.

It also shows her that you have self-respect and makes it seem you have your shit together.
It's an easy fix. Buy a GQ mag. Watch some YouTube videos.

Learn how high-value men look and dress. Get haircuts and shave regularly.

Losers who don't take care of themselves, have little chance of success with classy women.

Next!
2. The Approach

Let's start with what women don't like

โ€“weak and insecure men.

They subconsciously detest it.

You might get a pity one-night-stand once in a while, but that's it.
Women like self-confident and self-assured men.

If you are not, learn to fake it until you are. It's possible.

There are many resources on how to increase confidence and become more charismatic.

It's a learnable skill.
Here are some quick tips for conversations:

- Don't speak too fast
- Don't interrupt and let her talk
- Reduce how often and quickly you nod
- Improve posture; straight back, chest out
- Pause 2 sec before answering or speaking
- Increase length and strength of eye-contact
You need also learn to notice when she wants to talk to you.

Signs she is interested:

- Continued looking at you and looking away
- She is getting closer to you
- Sincere smiles at you
- SHE talked first

If you get these signals, take the initiative ASAP!
Women want on an unconscious level being led.

They want a man that is able to lead and make decisions if necessary.

So you direct them.

Not by force or gifts. By your inner strength, confidence, and presence.
Here is an example:

If you want a woman's phone number, you never ask her, "Can I get your phone number please?"

You just gave her a chance to say no.

Humans tend to have a negative bias, so people are more likely to say no when in doubt.
Instead, lead her.

You introduce yourself, "Hi, My name James, I happened to notice, I would like to see you again."

Followed by giving her your mobile phone with the keypad opened and a smile.

This works like magic.

Nothing shady. Easy and simple.
Don't be the weird guy with cheesy pickup lines.

Direct, confident, and straight to the point always works best.

If you have good humor, that works too.
Most men ask women out like this: "Hey, I was wondering, if youโ€™re single and if you would like to go out with me?โ€

That sounds weak AF.

Some women might say yes, but it's too passive, vague, and insecure.

She has to feel that you KNOW she will answer with yes.
We also don't care if she has a boyfriend at this stage. She will let you know if he is important to her.

Remember, we don't want to give her reasons to say no.
If you want to increase your chances, do this:

Ask her, "When is your next day off?"

She answers, "I'm off X."

You follow up with, "Alright. See you on X. I know a great place for us.", combined with a smile.

This one worked every single time in my lifetime.
Here a few more easy things to say when approaching:

- I like you
- I like your outfit
- I like your energy

Don't overthink it. Keep it simple and honest!
Learn to be content with rejection. It's part of the game.

There is always another opportunity.

Failure is part of success.
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