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Words reduce your value.
Especially when you engage in dialogue with disrespectful people.
Here's how you deal with them.
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Especially when you engage in dialogue with disrespectful people.
Here's how you deal with them.
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If people observe your interaction with someone rude, rarely will you look like a mature man of high status.
The person with a character always gets dragged down to a degenerates level.
It's never the other way around.
Nothing excites society more than smearing reputation.
The person with a character always gets dragged down to a degenerates level.
It's never the other way around.
Nothing excites society more than smearing reputation.
This means when someone rude or disrespectful engages you, you're already at a disadvantage.
People are watching. Every word counts.
Rarely do rude people respond to calm dialogue. Engaging with them will come at the cost of your reputation.
People are watching. Every word counts.
Rarely do rude people respond to calm dialogue. Engaging with them will come at the cost of your reputation.
The problem begins when you try to justify "why should this person get away with poor behaviour".
But this line of thinking gives rise to several dark emotions that more likely than not,
will make you lash out in a regretful manner.
But this line of thinking gives rise to several dark emotions that more likely than not,
will make you lash out in a regretful manner.
But rude people ONLY get away with their poor behviour if they actually get what they want.
They don't get away with anything when you silently stare at them with a smile.
So your job is to teach them that adjustment in behaviour is necessary if they want something from you.
They don't get away with anything when you silently stare at them with a smile.
So your job is to teach them that adjustment in behaviour is necessary if they want something from you.
If someone engages with you disrespectfully, simply tell them "that was not necessary".
Then cut it short and revoke your attention entirely.
Do not engage with them. Act as though they don't exist.
All non-verbals should emanate an awkward silent stare.
Nothing more.
Then cut it short and revoke your attention entirely.
Do not engage with them. Act as though they don't exist.
All non-verbals should emanate an awkward silent stare.
Nothing more.
Make it awkward because it evokes negative emotions which puts you in control.
Stare because it's intimidating and fast-tracks their reconsideration on how they should approach you.
Smile because it's the most unsettling expression in response to rude/aggressive behaviour.
Stare because it's intimidating and fast-tracks their reconsideration on how they should approach you.
Smile because it's the most unsettling expression in response to rude/aggressive behaviour.
Do not give them attention until they show signs suggesting they have adjusted their behavior.
Then you can micro-feed them your attention so they have a clear understanding,
of your intolerance to poor behaviour,
and the respect they need to express.
Then you can micro-feed them your attention so they have a clear understanding,
of your intolerance to poor behaviour,
and the respect they need to express.
