One time in highschool in form one third term hapo, I was leaving 1N class and I met my bff kwa verandah. We hadn't talked the whole day which was unusual. She was excited to see me ☺️. In that school best friend alikua anaitwa kiBestie. So my kiBestie hugged me & guess what, she
KISSED ME. 🙆🙆🙆
Ok the 'chum' kinda thing. But my lips y'all 🙃🙆 I pushed her away in a nice way nikishangaa rada😶
That had never happened in my whole life. It felt terrible kwanza considering it was kwa verandah watu wa form two wakiona laaaaawd. I didn't say anything.
I thought about that siku yoote and the days that followed. Of course I'll cut bond yetu. My best friend alikua tu sasa mtu na try ku figure out. We were still closed but I dunno I just kept the one meter rule from that day on. Plus we never had a conversation about how
uncomfortable I was. She was the kind that liked to hug, hold your hand, send you notes, buy you bread ama akupatie crust zote mbili😅 (my favorite part), mkienda funkie akubayie tu vitu again, my favorite. And I was okay with all that just not the kiss part🙃 I didn't understand
it.
Ikanifanya ni cut ties naye and just other friends I had. Simply because we never got to talk about it. Akapata best friend mwingine with time and the notes, gifts, hugs, kisses na kila kitu ika potea. I think the crust bread hurt me the most😅😭
I never had best friends after that. Highschool was pretty okay for me. I enjoyed my wanja kíhíí although the four years. I was friends with everybody ukijaribu kua close nakata tu. Haya so eventually naingia dunia. Nikaaanza biashara ya kuuza viatu za wanaume. Ilikua inanipeleka
vizuri. Once in a while I'd buy viatu za madem and sell them. One customer akataka pia akuwe bff ah nikamshow haiwezi. Again pia yeye alikua too close ana buy saaaaaaaaana which I loved. So after kushow I can't be her bff ata hio kiatu ya mwisho hakulipa😏
She was angry ata sijui
mbona.
Nikasema Mungu ata nilipishia. Again with girls nilikua na one meter rule. Sikua nataka moment ingine uncomfortable. Customeeeer mwingine naye akakua bff hivyo virahisi. She was my favorite customer. I'd dress her and get her the best that gikomba could give na yeye ananilipa.
Hugs zikaanza and didn't notice it. Weeeh another PDA person 😶🙃
That was my last best friend. I haven't had a bestie in 5 years. I think ni vile mimi hupenda space tu yangu ama ni vile hizo PDA spendi. I see girls trips looking good but I never have bestie's. Lol ata siwezi kua
na baby shower. Unless ni @kamenace_ atakuja😂
My person was telling me tukifanya harusi leo ni braid's maid atakua mwanaume and we laughed. Sijui tu niaje siwezangi kukua na bestie mdem. Everytime it happens that I have one, inakuanga story ingine uncomfortable ya PDA and I run.
Na si ati I don't have friend's who are girls, I do. Close ones ndio sinanga. I think niki notice mtu anakua close na potea tu.🙃
Sitaki story ingine ya PDA.

Maybe ni mimi tu mWeird sijui. Nadhani pia ni weird kukua na rafiki mnaset rules za dos and don'ts ama?
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