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The disneyification of women’s minds (mine included) has made our expectations of men and relationships totally unrealistic.
More than we should want a man who makes us feel good (just fleeting dopamine) we should want a man who is a provider and a protector.
More than we should want a man who makes us feel good (just fleeting dopamine) we should want a man who is a provider and a protector.
Tv and movies taught us we *need* to “click” with a man without ever really even considering what that means. To “click” is just sexual chemistry, which is of course important, but should not be the most important and fundamental aspect of how women assess potential husbands.
-Is he good with money/ not in debt?
-Would he die for his family?
-Does he love God?
-Does he push you to be better or just flatter you with smooth talk?
-Is he a man who can model healthy masculinity for your children?
If you find a man with 4 of these 5 qualities marry him.
-Would he die for his family?
-Does he love God?
-Does he push you to be better or just flatter you with smooth talk?
-Is he a man who can model healthy masculinity for your children?
If you find a man with 4 of these 5 qualities marry him.
4% of arranged marriages end in divorce compared with 40% of marriages ending in divorce in the US.
This should give you pause.
When we marry a man we are entering a kind of enterprise with him. To build and leave a legacy, to create something worth handing down to our kids.
This should give you pause.
When we marry a man we are entering a kind of enterprise with him. To build and leave a legacy, to create something worth handing down to our kids.
We have been psyopped into choosing our husbands purely for sex and romance.
Far more likely is deep and lasting intimacy to RESULT from entering a union which is based on God, trust, honesty, loyalty, sacrifice and common goals than it is to precede it.
Far more likely is deep and lasting intimacy to RESULT from entering a union which is based on God, trust, honesty, loyalty, sacrifice and common goals than it is to precede it.
Love takes TIME.
Love is more accurately described as the interweaving of two souls and minds over long stretches of time together than it is as the spark that made you notice one another in the first place.
Love is more accurately described as the interweaving of two souls and minds over long stretches of time together than it is as the spark that made you notice one another in the first place.
Btw the 4/5 things I mentioned above that a man should have for you to marry him has one caveat. He can have 4 out the 5 as long as the one thing he doesn’t have is the love for God.
