Codependency is one of the unwritten doctrines of the church. Good Mormons are codependent and have no boundaries because they are taught that having boundaries is bad, because the church needs to violate them to do what it does

Just imagine saying no to a calling

You don't like your ministering brother's/sisters? Tough shit. You need to let them in to minister to you

You'd like to know what you're agreeing to before you make covenants in the temple? Tough shit. Surprise, you just agreed to give all of your money and time to the church of jesus christ of latter-day saints. Oh, and you can't talk about it either

You'd like to get some fucking sleep in high school? Nope, can't do that. You've got seminary from 5:45 - 6:30 AM. God will bless you for your sacrifices

The entire goddamn religion is based on not saying "no." Who gets baptized? People who won't say no to the missionaries who keep asking to talk to them

You think church/general conference/seminary/mutual/stake dances are boring? Sorry, you aren't allowed to have that opinion. It's not about what is said it's about listening to the spirit. So if you're bored it's your fault