Men often times truly believe that they have control over their women. This is purely FALSE. No man has control over his woman, everything is an illusion
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Whether you believe in religion, frame, money or intimidation... Just know that everything you depend on to control a woman is nothing but an ILLUSION of control. You dont own or control her & that's facts #SaveAMan

She enjoys it when you tell her that you own her, she enjoys when you tell her she's yours & only yours, she'll even lay on your chest, look you in the eye & tell you how she wants you forever & mean it with all her heart...

Till those emotions change

#SaveAMan

In reality you can never own a woman no matter how much both of you like to believe it, she chooses to follow your lead, she chooses to surrender & submit to you, just as easily she can one day decide she doesn't want to & move on go elsewhere #SaveAMan

Now am I saying that women are wild & can't be reigned in to suit your program? NO. What I'm telling you gentleman, is that all you can do is inspire, incentivise & influence greatly towards your desires, you can never control her #SaveAMan

Why is this important? Because we as men have a natural inclination to be territorial & deeply concerned with the accumulation of resources - women included. Unfortunately society tells us that marriage, lobola, dowry, financial dominance & commitment is how to achieve this

This is false & DANGEROUS. Men take it personally & can get violent when his woman defies him as if it's an indication of his lack of masculinity.

No, it's just an indication of her autonomy as a human being. You'll never control a woman, but you can...

- Stimulate her
- Ensure her pleasures are aligned with yours
- Make sure she trusts your judgement enough to make decisions on her behalf
- Ensure she understands boundaries
- Give praise for good, constructively criticise what's bad

Men need to stop trying to view the freewill of women as a threat. True, many women want to be whores & fuck around, but many want to be mothers, partners & support structures. Their nature is the same, but as autonomous human beings, their desires, thoughts & decisions are NOT!

Stop fighting uphill battles to force a woman to do your will, why not just get women who are ready to change for you & who CHOOSE to enjoy pleasuring you. Having someone enjoy doing something for you is far better than forcing them to do it. #SaveAMan

In the end, influence & stimulatory incentives go further than brute force & anger in dealing with women. Making sure her pleasure is your pleasure will always win more than hard alpha male tactics... You'll never control her & her desires but you can INFLUENCE THEM! #SaveAMan