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CW: Trauma and February 14.
Valentine’s is coming.
I have worked this day in one way or another most of my working life, so I have thoughts based on observations.
Many of us carry trauma from school. We never dealt with it
CW: Trauma and February 14.
Valentine’s is coming.
I have worked this day in one way or another most of my working life, so I have thoughts based on observations.
Many of us carry trauma from school. We never dealt with it
because it was Just A Stupid Day
Your pain was and is real. From not getting little Valentine’s cards in our art project envelope, to watching popular kids with arm loads of roses. All of us who sent letter to a crush hoping the magical Cupid would make it like
Your pain was and is real. From not getting little Valentine’s cards in our art project envelope, to watching popular kids with arm loads of roses. All of us who sent letter to a crush hoping the magical Cupid would make it like
it is on tv and love would explode only to be laughed at, rejected and worse. All of us who took that moment to come out to our same sex crush only for that to horribly backfire.
That shit hurt. Hurt x 10 if you have RSD.
Being surrounded by classmates sucking face is, ugh.
That shit hurt. Hurt x 10 if you have RSD.
Being surrounded by classmates sucking face is, ugh.
If you have yet to experience love, it’s a glorification of everything you think you are missing.
If your heart has been broken, it’s a giant open wound in a salt bath kind of day.
From poems through to movies, we have been fed a false narrative of Meaningful Grand Gestures.
If your heart has been broken, it’s a giant open wound in a salt bath kind of day.
From poems through to movies, we have been fed a false narrative of Meaningful Grand Gestures.
And Valentine’s is peak MGG time.
So, February 14 is really Butt Load of Trauma day for many of us.
Get your self care plan ready now. Remember we are all under extra Covid stress, be gentle with yourself.
And be gentle with your partner. This is not the year to hold anyone
So, February 14 is really Butt Load of Trauma day for many of us.
Get your self care plan ready now. Remember we are all under extra Covid stress, be gentle with yourself.
And be gentle with your partner. This is not the year to hold anyone
accountable for upholding traditions or MGG’s.
It’s on a Sunday, I hope this gives people a chance to be in safe places and out of the glare.
Don’t discount the way this day has screwed with you.
There is no right way to Valentines.

It’s on a Sunday, I hope this gives people a chance to be in safe places and out of the glare.
Don’t discount the way this day has screwed with you.
There is no right way to Valentines.

