The Black people in your life do not and cannot speak on behalf of all Black people so stop asking us to.
Each individual Black person has been raised differently and has different experiences.
Don’t take one Black persons opinion as fact. Explore the opinions of other Black people too.
Your Black friends is okay with you saying the n-word around them?? That doesn’t mean the rest of us are okay with it. Get a grip!
I implore you to read anti-racism books by more than one Black author. Follow multiple anti-racist accounts. Watch multiple documentaries. Listen to multiple different Black folks. Diversify your feed.
The “Black experience” cannot be defined. It is individual. While we may have collective experiences, we comprehend those experiences differently.
My views do not represent the views of all Black people. Do you take your other white friends opinions to be the opinions of all white people?