Ten (10) things my ex told me is WRONG with me.

A THREAD!

1. I don't use to call, text her messages.

This is one of the most difficult part of relationship for me.

How would I keep calling & texting you continously?

If I choke with my wahala you go like am?

2. I don't take things too serious.

I'm damn guilty of this too.

3. I don't spend time with her.

I assume she's always busy & I wouldn't like to disturb her BUT no my dumb head was wrong.

4. Ibrahim doesn't feel jealous.

Feeling jealous is a good commodity in every relationship but excessive jealousy is a red flag.

Me: you like me; I don't need to be jealous of seeing someone around you. You are mean, I'm yours.

Why the effing jealousy?

But NO! I was wrong.

5. I don't follow up her plans.

Very guilty of this too. In a relationship, the partners should know their plans and monitor their growth.

If you don't do this, it shows you don't give a damn about her personal growth.

6. Ibrahim ain't generous.

Omo! Na who get money dey spend o. But then I'm not guilty of this at all.

If the little I have is not enough for you; I'm sorry I can't choke myself really hard.

A relationship is about give & take.

7. I don't flaunt her on social media.

I'm so guilty of this too.

But then relationship wey go end in tears go end in tears regardless of the "not-the-flaunting" type.

8. I don't take her out for dates.

Guilty of this. It's pretty when you spend time & create moment with people you love.

There are beautiful places you could create time for with your loved ones around you;, Invite them over, take selfies together, smile and talk life.

9. Ibrahim doesn't buy gift.

I'm guilty asf!



Had ones presented her birthday gift two weeks after her birthday.

She was angry with me but never showed it.

"I knew that because I could read her"

10. Ibrahim should limit his usage of social media.

Haaaaa! Haaaaa!! Haaaaa!!!

I will drop the pen here.

I've learnt in every relationship I had & I believe it's a growing process.
It's very important to accept your flaws & work on them.

I did & I'm still working on myself.

But I hope when I'm done working on myself I won't end-up with someone who is the "old-me".

It's very pretty to make you partner feel very important.

Like really scared of losing such person & going extra mile for such person.

Love is pretty when the vibes you give out is the same (more) you receive.