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long rant but when will people realize that bi and pan people exist...,., and that they can have preferences for the opposite gender like 
it doesn't make anyone less bi or pan for having a preference for the opposite gender yk... they're still bi or pan if they're dating someone of the opposite gender it doesnt mean they're "straight" or etc
bi and pan people don't have to have an obvious lean/preference for the same gender to be considered bi or pan
and if they're dating someone of the same gender and have explicitly stated that they're bi or pan, then respect that and don't tell them "oh you're actually *insert sexuality here*"
the definition of bi and pan is literally having affection for more than one gender ...., do i need to spell it out for you guys??/?/)
idk if it's just me but i'm just so sick and tired of people invalidating bi and pan people for liking people of the opposite gender because nah i did not go through three years of my life thinking i wasn't actually bi (1)
- because i had a preference for men and that i had to make it super obvious that i liked girls too to be considered bi gn
and i'm not going to talk about ships and headcanons and stuff bc it's whatever yk but i'm just so tired of seeing bi and panphobia everywhere i go
okay gn back to my hole i go
