If a man wants to fuck you, it’s because he finds you physically attractive. Physical attraction isn’t always basis for a friendship. Maybe he has enough friends. Maybe he doesn’t want friends. Maybe you’re a horrible human being, but your ass is fat and soft.

So if, after a man expresses his interest in fucking you, you decline, and he sets off on his way, never to speak with you again, I personally fail to see the problem here. It’s okay if you’re hurt, but the same way you expect him to be cool with you not wanting to fuck him...

...you too be cool with him not wanting to be friends with you. Can’t eat your cake and have it.

Maybe you don’t want to fuck because you already have someone you’re fucking, he too he doesn’t want to be friends, because he already has someone he’s friending. Wozzdeproblem?