I got out before this, but my partner going thru it was a most challenging time. I feel like the toll it took on all of his health, & at least my mental/emotional health was awful (we’ve had time to recover now; luckily he could prioritize a follow-on job where that could happen) https://twitter.com/justjsides/status/1353913884147638278
And our family is us + our extremely sweet & well behaved dog; I don’t know how folks with kids do it.
(I don’t mind saying well-behaved about my dog, but I think it can be a red flag for humans. I was a “well-behaved child” & most of the reasons that’s true are some of the same reasons I look forward to eventual therapy
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