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Remember we all have flaws, we may find it hard to accept them but the more we accept them the more we are able to change them and become a better person. Change is natural and a part of life no matter what, no one is perfect and life is a journey to try and become the best
Person we can be. Bumps and scratches and flaws and learning from our mistakes makes us human, I'm still learning alot about myself and I know that I have flaws and that I can improve myself in many ways we all can, we just have to learn to face those issues instead of
Ignoring them. We all can change, and some need a push in the right direction and need a respectful guide to help them realise they need to improve themselves. I know I need to improve myself in more ways than one, this is why I actively ask people how I can do better.
Even if it's the smallest thing like I should not walk past a piece of trash, I should pick it up and throw it away even if its not mine. Or even I noticed I was kind of blunt in the way I said that, i should try to explain what I actually meant.
Change doesnt come Instantly, it comes over years/months of practice, help, guidance and acceptance in order to get better even if it is only slightly. That's why it's better to make seasonal goals for yourself. If you go to bed one night thinking "I'm gonna be a new
Person and change the way I act and be as happy as I can be tomorrow!" But you suffer with depression or isolation you are going to feel like you failed yourself the next day if you felt slightly sad and that's going to hurt you more.
But. If you set a realistic goal of say... "I'm going to try and think of 3 good things that happened to me today and write them down or talk to someone about them" it's a bit more reasonable, sure you may feel sad during the day but you can remember a few things that sparked
Joy in those moments. Sure you didn't act happy the whole day but you started to notice things you did enjoy and did find even the smallest bit of happiness in. If you failed that? No worries, at least you found 2 or even 1 that day!
Try to look at the bright side of your self improvement. I've been pretty emotional these past few weeks due to a multitude of different reasons all stacking on top of me. But I've identified what these reasons are and I know why I am upset. Where I used
To not even realise why I was getting upset and I would blame it on the wrong people, which hurt me or even hurt them. I have been trying to keep logic in my emotions while I have them. Though I'm not 100% great at it and I'm still having days where i just ball my eyes
Out for no reason, I'm still improving on it and learning how to cope with it as well as express it in a healthier manner. Anything can be worked on,communication, self love, acts of kindness, attitude, etc etc. We will fall and stumble make the same mistake we thought
We fixed a while ago again. But as long as we get back up and try again and try to do better, we are always going to become better people. It's ok to ask for help, it's ok to ask people what you need to work on, they may want to spare your feelings but sometimes it's easier to
Hear the truth. But also wait to know if someone can handle it. You dont want ti cause someone to spiral out of control, say it kindly and say it when you know they can take it. I believe everyone can improve, no one is perfect and we learn from eachother.
Sorry for the tweet spam, I'm not a professional in any way. But I will share what I think and I'd love to hear what you have to say on the matter!!!
