Last night we have hit 2k. And I wanted to thank all of my followers and supporters. It was a beautiful journey and I know there is a lot more to cover and we will do it together.

It was never been possible without the help of your support
So I thank you each one of you ..
Last night I have cried a lot but not with the tears of sadness but the tear of joy, the tear of an achievement that comes after a story of my life.

And I wanted to share my story with all of you because I believe that many people had gone or been going through the same phase .
I was a usual normal boy who was living a chilled life. It was the month of January 2020 and I have been preparing for my board exams along with my friends. At that time I also had a girlfriend whom I love a lot.
I had been always known the real definition of love and try to make her always happy and all. We often talk whole nights.
Everything was going fine till the last exam day.
After that our connections began to fade. Things aren't normal like previous days.
We don't talk to each other a lot. I was just hoping that this shall pass but as time was passing the condition become worse. I cried at night that maybe things go right, maybe the love again gets the same But destiny has something else planned.
On my birthday, I finally decided to ask her and shared all my feeling with her. I asked why our connection isn't getting good.

Why there is so much distance has come between us?
How is she managing without talking to me? Doesn't she feels any need.
I was begging
And that I got the message that -
It's you who have loved not me .and I don't care about that we talk or not.

That day my heart broken into pieces I remember it was 20th June 2020, my birthday and I cried the whole night beside my parents who were sleeping .
This condition remained for 1 month till July. I don't go outside, my health gets declining every day. My parents were worried but I had completely forgotten myself. But we say Time heals everyone.

One day when I was crying my soul cried inside of me that -'You wanted all this"
"Are you born for this "

These questions started coming out. The next day I looked at the mirror and promised myself that I will change my life this year. I will make myself the best version of myself.

I researched a bit and landed here.
25 October 2020

I started this account Met a lot of people, talked with them, and started to grow. Things were changing I no longer cried for these things. I was getting better each day, learning every day.

Crossed 1k on 30 December and then crossed 2k yesterday.
I shared this story because this story is not only unique to mine but many people go through this phase of a breakup. They actually forget themselves, they think that life has ended but it is not true.
Here is some lesson I learned from this story of my life and I want to share this with all the people who have been going through this phase of life.

I also respect all the people who had gone through this phase and has changed their life for the good.
1) Time heals everyone

You might feel pain at that time
You might feel to give up on your life
You might feel that you have lost everything
But these are just emotions and it's normal
Give yourself some time and you will be eventually healed.

Nothings last forevor.
2) Don't chase, attract.

The more you chase things the more it goes farther from you.
It works in everyone and everything.

So, don't just give everything for something or someone.
3) There is nothing more important than you

Yes, prioritizing yourself is not a selfish act, it is a need.

Love yourself
Work on your ambitions
Work on your personality
4) Don't rely on others for your happiness

External happiness never lasts forever.
Remember,
Happiness is a state of mind and it can only come from within.

So don't look for happiness outside.
5) Your own expectation is hurting you

If someone gives you something, Accept it.
If not, move forward but don't expect.

The only reason for most of you sufferings is expectations.
6) Accept the situations in your life.

If you are feeling pain, accept it.
Because
If you can't accept it, how can you fight it.

When you don't expect it, It becomes an imagination. So can you fix it?
7) Know that all things are part of your life.

Every incident you face in your life is just a part.
No one is going to remain forever in your life.

So , never get too attached with someone.
8) Every person/Phases teaches us something

There is a lot to learn from life.

Many people will just come into your life to teach you something.

Learn from it and move ahead.
9) Family is everything

Many people forget their family when they get married or get into a relationship.

Don't be that person.

There is nothing above your family.

You are reading this because of your mother and parent only who has spent money to get you educated.
10) Self- Respect Is Everything

A person who doesn't respect himself cannot be respected by anyone.

Be selfish enough to prioritize yourself.

A relationship is not about only love. It is about knowing each other and helping each other out.
11 ) Live a balanced life

Do you eat a food which has got excess salt or suagr?

So,

Why give excess love to someone.

Remember, A relationship is about two people, and both needs to contribute.
12 ) Know that you can't get everything

If you can't get something, don't be sad.

Know this

That you still have better choices than that.

Live is all about learning, winning.

If it is meant to come, it will come but if you don't get it .

Move ahead
This was my story and I am feeling proud that I have gone through this and also happy that this phase has came so early in my life, otherwise I might be not here but still playing games.

Thank you for reading

May your life be blessed and you get all happiness and prosperity.
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