Gender roles/Traditional roles can be triggering for some people.

It’s important to be mindful of the past hurts people have experienced.

In most cases, men don’t want a woman to cook for him if she finds no joy in serving him(for she will often end up a bitter woman), & women don’t want a man to provide for her if he finds no joy in serving her(he will often end up bitter too).

Traditional gender roles can be oppressive when people who practice them are oppressive.

Traditional gender roles can be a beautiful gift to the other if the people who practice them love sacrificially, giving to one another and honor one another above themself.