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It's no surprise that a lot of men start doing better financially after they get married.
A lot of people attribute this to the wife bringing good luck- to which I ask, is it?
I mean, when you stare at responsibilities that you can no longer shelve.
A lot of people attribute this to the wife bringing good luck- to which I ask, is it?
I mean, when you stare at responsibilities that you can no longer shelve.
You're now responsible for other people, you're planning on having children you must provide for, you have a family you have to take care of and at least maintain appearance. All these is staring you in the face and it's no longer a drill.
When it was just you, you can just spend less, go out less, fornicate less (because it costs money,) shift some costs here and there and you'll make it through until you get paid again. So you really don't have the motivation to go out of your way to do anything as long as you're
comfortable.
So that encourages laziness, or maybe not laziness, maybe a lax attitude towards making money because you can simply reduce your spending and be fine.
And then you get married and you see all these potential costs piling up.
So that encourages laziness, or maybe not laziness, maybe a lax attitude towards making money because you can simply reduce your spending and be fine.
And then you get married and you see all these potential costs piling up.
You start spending less time on entertainment and chilling and more time being out there hustling, taking jobs you think are beneath you, taking courses you think will help you earn more, being more diligent at work because you know you need that promotion, just doing the
things that usually, you won't go out of your way to do to make money.
And naturally, the money starts rolling in because you're actually doing the work, you're playing less, procrastinating less, putting yourself more out there, being more financially responsible,
And naturally, the money starts rolling in because you're actually doing the work, you're playing less, procrastinating less, putting yourself more out there, being more financially responsible,
being more diligent in your business, saving more by cutting personal expenses, seeking out more investment opportunities.
You do this for a while and the money comes because that's the law of money.
You do this for a while and the money comes because that's the law of money.
And you become comfortable at some point, you can adequately take care of your family.
But the people who don't see all that start soliloquizing about how your wife has brought good luck, even though she's an entry level accountant who barely makes enough to be able to
But the people who don't see all that start soliloquizing about how your wife has brought good luck, even though she's an entry level accountant who barely makes enough to be able to
afford luck.
The luck she did not bring herself
People see you're doing better and think, yes, " he who finds a wife..."
The luck she did not bring herself
People see you're doing better and think, yes, " he who finds a wife..."
I'm not discounting the role of the woman in this thing, there are women that will push you, infact she'll become just as much as a hustler as you are because she also feels the same way, she'll go out, meet more people while keeping you in mind
thinking "whose contact may my husband need?"
How can I be of help in expanding his network?
She'll also do more, start that side business that she has been putting off because
How can I be of help in expanding his network?
She'll also do more, start that side business that she has been putting off because
the money from her entry level job and gifts from her "ex potentials" was enough to fund the baby girl lifestyle.
But now she's married and the "ex potentials" are sponsoring other babes now, since they cannot be investing in another man's wife.
But now she's married and the "ex potentials" are sponsoring other babes now, since they cannot be investing in another man's wife.
The fund from that end dries up and she makes up for it with work.
She knows she has a family now. She has to bring more in too (even if her money is hers and your money is for everybody)
She knows she has a family now. She has to bring more in too (even if her money is hers and your money is for everybody
)
Your hustle×her hustle×financial responsibility= comfortable living.
Because there's no such thing as luck, only work.
People who don't see all that simply chalk it up to "luck from your wife."
..... "and obtains mercy from the Lord."
Because there's no such thing as luck, only work.
People who don't see all that simply chalk it up to "luck from your wife."
..... "and obtains mercy from the Lord."
The way I see it, there's no fortune in anybody's sexual parts.
There's no luck on anybody's body.
You're simply getting the result of doing everything you know you should do but didn't do until you had responsibilities big enough to motivate you to indeed do those things.
There's no luck on anybody's body.
You're simply getting the result of doing everything you know you should do but didn't do until you had responsibilities big enough to motivate you to indeed do those things.
A case can be made for Dare from Sango whose in-law is Otedola and by some miracle has won one of his daughter's heart even though he's broke and they don't move in the same circles.
But by miracle, Otedola gives his blessings and he's now Dare Otedola.
But by miracle, Otedola gives his blessings and he's now Dare Otedola.
That's the only lucky kind of newly married man.
The rest must work.
The rest must work.
Oloye writing to you from the #CouncilofChiefs
