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Anyway not necessarily a thread of things EVERYONE with BPD experiences but here's a thread of PERSONAL experience of things that helped me realize I had a favorite person (fp) !
If u can relate to these, that's great!
If you can't , that's okay too. Your experience is your own and you are valid!
This is not a thread to say that this is what its like for EVERYONE with BPD,,, these are just some things I noticed from my experience!
If you can't , that's okay too. Your experience is your own and you are valid!
This is not a thread to say that this is what its like for EVERYONE with BPD,,, these are just some things I noticed from my experience!
1. I will want to share my favorite things with you.
If you are my fp I will want you to enjoy the same things I do. If I like it, I think you will like it too. It makes me happy and I want to share that happiness!
If you are my fp I will want you to enjoy the same things I do. If I like it, I think you will like it too. It makes me happy and I want to share that happiness!
2. I will become easily jealous of other people you interact with.
I wanna clarify really quick that this is something that should be talked about with your fp if you have one and you guys should set up boundaries about it.
Anyway. I will become very easily jealous-
I wanna clarify really quick that this is something that should be talked about with your fp if you have one and you guys should set up boundaries about it.
Anyway. I will become very easily jealous-
-when youre beginning to get close to others. I will fear that you are going to leave me because you are close to someone else.
Again, this is only how I feel. With clear communication between you and your fp, this can still be very healthy for you and your fp. Things like-
Again, this is only how I feel. With clear communication between you and your fp, this can still be very healthy for you and your fp. Things like-
- asking for reassuring that you are still loved by your fp and finding ways to distract from the jealousy is the best way to go!
3. I will tell you I love frequently.
If you are my fp, I love you very very much. I will feel the need to remind you every half hour or so. I will want you to know just how much you mean to me and how much I love you.
If you are my fp, I love you very very much. I will feel the need to remind you every half hour or so. I will want you to know just how much you mean to me and how much I love you.
4. I will crave constant approval from you.
If you are my fp, I will always be trying to impress you or make you happy. Having approval from you is immensely important because I hold your opinion above anyone else's. Sometimes I will even ask your opinion on things-
If you are my fp, I will always be trying to impress you or make you happy. Having approval from you is immensely important because I hold your opinion above anyone else's. Sometimes I will even ask your opinion on things-
- like art, pictures, and writing before I post them to a public platform. Approval from others feels good but nothing feels better coming from my fp.
5. I cant get enough of you.
I will want to look at you and talk to you all day. You will rarely leave my mind and I will be excited every time I get to spend a second with you. Everything about you will make me happy.
I will want to look at you and talk to you all day. You will rarely leave my mind and I will be excited every time I get to spend a second with you. Everything about you will make me happy.
6. I will become upset or distressed when you are gone for long periods of time. (Especially when its without warning)
If you are my fp I am very very attached to you. My world practically revolves around you. When you leave for long periods of time I will begin to feel -
If you are my fp I am very very attached to you. My world practically revolves around you. When you leave for long periods of time I will begin to feel -
- like a part of me is missing. I will feel distressed and lost like I dont know what to do unless I am distracted
7. I like to know everything about you.
Every little detail you tell me, I will listen. I will ask you random questions simply because I like to know about you. I like to know your favorite things and what makes you happy. Everything about is important to me.
Every little detail you tell me, I will listen. I will ask you random questions simply because I like to know about you. I like to know your favorite things and what makes you happy. Everything about is important to me.
I have more but I think this threads getting a bit long.
If you think you have an fp, it can be important to tell your fp that! Setting up boundaries for both yourself AND your fp is VERY IMPORTANT. Some of these symptoms may seem scary at first but with the help and-
If you think you have an fp, it can be important to tell your fp that! Setting up boundaries for both yourself AND your fp is VERY IMPORTANT. Some of these symptoms may seem scary at first but with the help and-
- understanding of yourself , your symptoms, and your fp's comfort zone, you can have a healthy relationship with your fp! Youre not bad or clingy for having an fp. Fp's are not optional and we do not choose them.
Thank u for reading ur very epic.
Thank u for reading ur very epic.
ALSO YES i made a similar thread like 2-3 days ago but I wanted to make this one too that went more in-depth to the smaller things than just emotional dependence and that stuff.
