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The real tea behind abandonment issues is we abandon ourselves when we orbit around people that we know have a track record of going ghost. Choose yourself by doing away with connections that leave you deficient yet craving for more. If it’s not there stop going back for seconds.
The first time it happens you’re a victim, every time after that and you’re a volunteer. This is not including abusive relationships. We all know what a cesspool of emotional manipulation that comes with.
“But it’s hard, I can’t stop, they pull me in and breadcrumb me, it’s enticing”
You know what’s more enticing? Choosing yourself.
You know what’s more enticing? Choosing yourself.
“It’s not what you think they have a lot going on”
A text takes less than 5 seconds.
A text takes less than 5 seconds.
“They’re just confused, I need to remind them and help them decide.”
Someone not being sure about you has already made a choice. An indecision is a decision.
Someone not being sure about you has already made a choice. An indecision is a decision.
“They’re healing.”
So are you but your heart is wide open, there’s no excuse.
So are you but your heart is wide open, there’s no excuse.
“I just need to be patient, they’ll come around.”
We’re not scheduling our lives around other people. Leave the waiting room and go live your life.
We’re not scheduling our lives around other people. Leave the waiting room and go live your life.
“What if this person is the best I can do?”
You said this about the last person and eventually moved on. Give yourself a little more credit.
You said this about the last person and eventually moved on. Give yourself a little more credit.
“I’m not good at tapping into my self worth and giving myself the love I deserve”
If you wouldn’t put someone else’s child through this, don’t do it to your own inner child. They’re still in there counting on you.
If you wouldn’t put someone else’s child through this, don’t do it to your own inner child. They’re still in there counting on you.
