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I think some people here follow me because I’m funny...forgetting I’m also a degenerate pervert, former whore, libertine freak. while still tweeting very terrible kink takes that I find deeply insulting on a personal level. Use this moment to show yourselves out.
I’ve said this before on here. People feel a kind of ownership over being able to discuss kink despite having 0 experience or knowledge of leather history. That’s literally the hallmark of ignorance, insisting on engaging with a topic you don’t understand.
For people in leather community, this is a huge part of our lives and how we understand the world. We have engaged with our shame around our desires and interrogated them. These conversations happen within the community ALL THE TIME. you are not bringing anything to the table.
And no you don’t actually know what you’re talking about because you dated a cis man in your early 20s who called himself a Dom while abusing and gaslighting you. Newsflash, men are abusive and will use many different mechanisms to control women.
Like do you guys really believe women don’t truly want the kind of sex theyre having? What kind of swerf ass shit is that? Y’all haven’t even read a Dworkin essay and are trying to reinvent the wheel. At least read your foundational texts before you start running your mouth.
“Consent doesn’t exist” neither does gender. What now? They’re frameworks we use to move through the world in an authentic manner that’s true to our being. Like what is the goal here? “We need to interrogate why people wanna hit their partners” babe, you don’t have the range.
I know you don’t have the range because you think certain kinks are people “abusing” their partners. What are you imagining here? A helpless woman tied up against her will as a man beats her mercilessly? I’m sorry to inform you that to MANY people that sounds like a great time.
get it through your heads that there are people in this world who genuinely enjoy pain and fear as part of the erotic experience. And some of us enjoy administering pain and fear because it’s exciting and our partners love it. Other than that, this is none of your business.
