*Thread* - Enjoy life while figuring it out
"Don't date or have fun until your money is right"
is one of the worst takes on here
"Don't date or have fun until your money is right"
is one of the worst takes on here
Even if you were sauced outta your mind on adderall
You'd maybe be able to put in 6-8 hours of quality work
Not drugged, you can expect 3-5 hours of highest quality output
Additional hours being more so administrative busy work
You'd maybe be able to put in 6-8 hours of quality work
Not drugged, you can expect 3-5 hours of highest quality output
Additional hours being more so administrative busy work
There are many highly negative side effects
That come with subscribing to the "be a hermit until money is sorted out" philosophy
First off, it puts WAY too much emphasis on money
Which actually makes it harder to make money
That come with subscribing to the "be a hermit until money is sorted out" philosophy
First off, it puts WAY too much emphasis on money
Which actually makes it harder to make money
When things are a big deal inflated expectation is projected onto the thing
If you can't allow yourself to enjoy life until after money is 'figured out'
Massive expectation is placed on escaping out of the prison
Leading to hesitation, doubt, & perfectionism
If you can't allow yourself to enjoy life until after money is 'figured out'
Massive expectation is placed on escaping out of the prison
Leading to hesitation, doubt, & perfectionism
Second, it ties so much self worth to money
Actions speak louder than words
93% of communication is non-verbal
In doing this it's a constant affirmation to yourself that you're not worthy of happiness without money
Actions speak louder than words
93% of communication is non-verbal
In doing this it's a constant affirmation to yourself that you're not worthy of happiness without money
Third, other areas of your life become underdeveloped
Winning in one area but losing in others
Imagine escaping hermit mode after making some money
With no social circle, underdeveloped social skills, zero game, no hobbies, and nothing fun in life going on
Winning in one area but losing in others
Imagine escaping hermit mode after making some money
With no social circle, underdeveloped social skills, zero game, no hobbies, and nothing fun in life going on
In my experience it was MUCH easier to take action on business moves when winning in other areas of life
When money is not the only source of good emotions
When it's not a massive life changing big deal to make more money
You're less hesitant & just take action
When money is not the only source of good emotions
When it's not a massive life changing big deal to make more money
You're less hesitant & just take action
For these reasons I think the whole "be a hermit until your rich" is one of the worst takes on here
There is of course times where "monk mode" or periods of isolation are beneficial to get ahead on something
There are times when more attention should go to finances
But...
There is of course times where "monk mode" or periods of isolation are beneficial to get ahead on something
There are times when more attention should go to finances
But...
Life doesn't need to be "totally figured out" to enjoy it
You can have fun while figuring it out
You can have fun while in pursuit of goals
Fun & income growth are not mutually exclusive
A honest questions to ask...
You can have fun while figuring it out
You can have fun while in pursuit of goals
Fun & income growth are not mutually exclusive
A honest questions to ask...
What has stunted income more? Fun or Fear?
For some people it might be fun
For many people 'fun' has been demonized by 'influencers' & it's really just fear holding back their progress
Thank you for reading,
Cheers
- Yous
For some people it might be fun
For many people 'fun' has been demonized by 'influencers' & it's really just fear holding back their progress
Thank you for reading,
Cheers
- Yous
Added note - getting paid ain't going to get you laid
If you can't socialize, make friends, & date without money
Money will not save you
This is why a lot of influencers have a twisted view
They worked on their social/dating life AFTER making money & relying on money
If you can't socialize, make friends, & date without money
Money will not save you
This is why a lot of influencers have a twisted view
They worked on their social/dating life AFTER making money & relying on money