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I believe her. Even when accused is a respected peer. I believe her. The allegations are too serious to ignore. In keeping with LeadSA antirape initiative Primedia launched, there is room for a stronger statement that doesn't subvert legal process. 1) Because rape is a scourge & https://twitter.com/ewnupdates/status/1350073119852130305
2) Accusation demands empathy for the victim, suspension pending legal outcome AND deference to legal process. It is not either or, these responses can happen at the same time.) 3) Accused is prominent & senior employees so company's response must reflect that. I believe her.
Believing a woman doesn't mean accused doesn't deserve a fair trial or hearing. These can unfold simultaneously. Even whilst yielding to a legal process, we have seen that law and justice don't always mean the same thing.
I have warm relationship of mutual respect with one of the accused. I say this DELIBERATELY because OFTEN we don't believe victims precisely because we falsely assume men we know are not capable of certain actions. This contributes to doubt & victimization of victim. It's wrong
Knowing the accused, loving and liking him, doesn't justify a wall of silence & erasing the victim. Knowing him means I can acknowledge that I am saddened and pained. I can hope for a fair legal process. But I can ALSO believe HER!
