The other day oomf uploaded a video of a girl in the elevator with her tinder date and later the date drag her body after he killed her. Firasat aku kuat untuk aku share my go-to rules when it comes to having dates via dating apps I hope this thread helps even in the smallest way
Of all my years of dating. There are a few rules yang aku belajar or orang ajarkan dekat aku. We never know what kind of people yang kita jumpa.

PS: The rules i ought to share are simply a precautionary and educational. If you feel the need to seek authority helps please do so.
1) Public places

Whenever i go on a date. I usually set a date at a place where theres a lot of people. Some place yang public, easy access and convenient. Some dates mungkin nak ajak “lepak” dalam kereta or dekat rumah. Aku prefer untuk kenal dia dulu. Nak tahu vibe dia cane.
2) Pictures

Always confirm and verified your dates. Kalau gambar dia bagi suspicious kau boleh reverse search dekat google or ask your dates for more. Jangan kena catfish. And save your date’s picture juga in your phone just in case. And if boleh share a few pic to your friends.
3) Transportation

Usually aku prefer kalau either aku drive to the place or guna public transport. NEVER EVER ask your first date untuk ambil daripada rumah. EVER. Kalau nak juga suruh dia ambil make sure ambil dekat tempat public dekat lrt station etc.
4) Location

Always share your live location to someone you trust. Let say the dates went well, and kau nak pergi rumah dia. Share your lives location dekat your friends or families or someone. And tahu public transportation dekat area rumah dia.
5) Protection (1/2)

Sorry kalau yang ni agak sensitives but make sure korang bawak rubber candy korang sendiri. Baik lelaki baik perempuan. And time nak pasang tu kau tengok dia pasang or feel it or pasangkan. NOW, during your “session”, always make sure yang dia still on RC tu.
5) Protection (2/2)

Takut takut dia buka halfway. And the girls always have your plan B or know or when and where to access it. Also bring some small weapon to defend yourself. Macam pepper spray ke something sharp as your keychain ke.
6) Gadgets

Yang ni crucial juga. Always have your phone on 100%. Kalau rasa selalu main phone or battery korang kong. Bawa powerbank and cable. Just in case theres an emergency. Kalau tak ada powerbank korang boleh request dekat staff restaurant or cari socket yg ada usb plug.
7) Foods

When it comes to food kalau makan dekat restaurants aku tak kesah. BUT kalau dekat club or a bar jangan korang tinggal minuman korang. Right now banyak jenis “date drugs”. Also kalau korang dekat rumah your date, make sure korang nampak macam mana dia buat air tu.
8) Information

Kalau korang tak yakin dengan your dates, jangan share personal information dekat dia. Cukup socmeds dengan whatsapp. Kalau nak lagi protection guna telegram. Telegram bagus sebab kita boleh add guna ID instead of phone number.
Aku rasa thats all the rules. Harap membantu mana yang memerlukan. And always trust your instinct. Kalau instinct kau kata jangan then jangan lah.
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