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i am thinking respectfully about lifestyle d/s ranwans... thinking about them taking their power exchange out of the bedroom. not full on m/s, but more intense than bedplay, more encompassing. they're both intense people, and mr's desire is so consuming how can he want cwn only-
halfway? (obviously this is not a reflection of how relationships actually work, but there is an undeniable part of mr that wants to possess, that finds security in ownership and cwn is so insecure about being sufficient and desirable, there's comfort in knowing that he is mr's.)
indisputably, all he has to do is touch the thin band of the collar he wears beneath his clothes to remind himself that he is claimed and wanted and that there can be no threat to that. that mo ran said inarguably that cwn is his.
and mo ran's good at taking care of cwn, wants to take care of him. maybe there are things that should be in mo ran's control, like when cwn stops working. maybe he can just gently put his hand around cwn's wrist and say "that's enough, baobei", and there is no argument,
because not choosing can be comfortable. letting mo ran decide when he's had enough, when he feels safe to, helps cwn let go, to relax, because he's always holding on so tightly and now there's someone else at the helm and he trusts mo ran enough to let him decide.
mo ran plans healthy, nutritious meals, asks for cwn's help in cooking them, and then, when cwn doesn't want to eat something because it's too strongly flavored or not sweet enough, maybe mo ran feeds it to him. maybe he gets to decide what cwn is going to eat and cwn gets to go-
into little space without shame, to pout and turn his nose up and for mo ran to gently and sternly feed him. and then when he's good he gets to curl up on mo ran's lap and drink a glass of warm, sweet soy milk, and to be held and protected and feel small, doing what mo ran said.
cwn canonically found freedom in being xsn, in being six and having no expectation of restraint or maturity on him and i think he deserves to express that as an adult by going into little space, by getting to be small and cry into mo ran's shoulder while he's being cradled
just like a child, for mo ran to take care of him and hold him and protect all the parts of him that are small and vulnerable, for mo ran to put him in the bath and wash him and keep soap out of his eyes, and to tell cwn to stay within his sight in the marketplace so he doesn't-
get lost because they're not going to do anything OVERT in public, that wouldn't be what cwn would want. for him part of the safety is privacy, but i think it would be good for them to have it full time!
i think they would both be happy and comfortable if they could always feel the invisible weight of mo ran's hand on the back of cwn's neck, that a lifestyle d/s dynamic with cgl aspects to it would be excellent for them and if i cannot find it i will have to create it.
