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Have you ever seen it happen that a guy you know breaks up with his loving girlfriend
Only to end up an incel, unable to get laid
Single for years, wondering why he ever broke up with his ex?
Maybe this even happened to you
Do you want to know why this is so common?
Read on
Only to end up an incel, unable to get laid
Single for years, wondering why he ever broke up with his ex?
Maybe this even happened to you
Do you want to know why this is so common?
Read on
You see this happen often
Guy gets a girlfriend
She falls deeply in love with him
He starts to believe he can do better, breaks up with her
And then ends up dead in the water
Not able to get laid or get dates for months
Meanwhile she's happily in her next relationship
Guy gets a girlfriend
She falls deeply in love with him
He starts to believe he can do better, breaks up with her
And then ends up dead in the water
Not able to get laid or get dates for months
Meanwhile she's happily in her next relationship
There are several reasons this happens
The most important one? Hypergamy
Not her hypergamy though, his hypergamy
He starts to believe that because he can get 1 girl to become obsessed with him
He can get many girls to become obsessed with him
So he breaks up with her
The most important one? Hypergamy
Not her hypergamy though, his hypergamy
He starts to believe that because he can get 1 girl to become obsessed with him
He can get many girls to become obsessed with him
So he breaks up with her
That's not how dating works though. Being able to get one girl to fall in love with you gives you no guarantees for other girls
Being good at relationships, and being good at attracting women, are two completely different skillsets
(more on this later)
Being good at relationships, and being good at attracting women, are two completely different skillsets
Another major reason this happens?
Because he bought into the disney blue pill lies
Not the ones about how he's supposed to treat her
But the ones about how she's supposed to make him feel
Like she should make him feel madly in love forever after
Because he bought into the disney blue pill lies
Not the ones about how he's supposed to treat her
But the ones about how she's supposed to make him feel
Like she should make him feel madly in love forever after
This isn't love though. It's the honeymoon phase
There's a reason the romantic movies always stop when they get together
Things get less exciting after a while, but in return they become more stable
Puppy love changes into a more gentle affection
There's a reason the romantic movies always stop when they get together
Things get less exciting after a while, but in return they become more stable
Puppy love changes into a more gentle affection
Chemistry is free at the start of your relationship
But after the honeymoon phase, you have to start working to keep it alive
Many men break up at this point, thinking there's something wrong with the relationship
When really they were just too lazy to make it work
But after the honeymoon phase, you have to start working to keep it alive
Many men break up at this point, thinking there's something wrong with the relationship
When really they were just too lazy to make it work
Back to dating women vs attracting them
So why is it that men who can make their girlfriend become madly in love with them
Why do those same men become an incel when they break up? Unable to get dates. Unable to get laid
It doesn't make sense at first glance
So why is it that men who can make their girlfriend become madly in love with them
Why do those same men become an incel when they break up? Unable to get dates. Unable to get laid
It doesn't make sense at first glance
There is a powerswitch that happens between men & women when they're single vs when they're dating
When single, women hold the power.
All a woman has to do is show up & men will flock to her
Men on the other hand, well men have to do all the work
When single, women hold the power.
All a woman has to do is show up & men will flock to her
Men on the other hand, well men have to do all the work
Men have to face the rejections. Men have to convince the women that they're the man for her
Once a man has convinced a woman to date him though
The power begins to switch
The longer they date, the more she gives her power to him
The more he becomes in control
Once a man has convinced a woman to date him though
The power begins to switch
The longer they date, the more she gives her power to him
The more he becomes in control
Women invest more in their relationships
They have a shorter time window to date. They have more potential downsides (think single momhood)
She has to be more picky with who she dates
And she also has more to lose when her relationships don't work out
So she invests more
They have a shorter time window to date. They have more potential downsides (think single momhood)
She has to be more picky with who she dates
And she also has more to lose when her relationships don't work out
So she invests more
Women need relationships to work more than men do
Men can still settle down and start families at 50
Women simply can't biologically
So when two 29 year olds break up, she's in a much worse position than he is
She needs that relationship to be successful
Men can still settle down and start families at 50
Women simply can't biologically
So when two 29 year olds break up, she's in a much worse position than he is
She needs that relationship to be successful
Once the break up happens though, she needs to move on faster than he does
Hence why girls will often have a new boyfriend within a few weeks to months
Even if she's not over her ex yet
Manosphere uses this to demonize women, but what other choice do women have?
Hence why girls will often have a new boyfriend within a few weeks to months
Even if she's not over her ex yet
Manosphere uses this to demonize women, but what other choice do women have?
Back to why guys break up & then crash though
Another common reason (which ties into the loss of excitement) that men break up
Is because they meet a new girl that makes him feel the same excitement
Which makes him think there is something wrong with his current relationship
Another common reason (which ties into the loss of excitement) that men break up
Is because they meet a new girl that makes him feel the same excitement
Which makes him think there is something wrong with his current relationship
But then after he breaks up, things don't seem to happen with this new girl and he ends up empty handed
And it's his own fault really
Because he took all the wrong actions and bet on the wrong horses
And it's his own fault really
Because he took all the wrong actions and bet on the wrong horses
There are more reasons why guys break up from perfectly healthy relationships of course
And there are much better alternatives that they should do instead
Things you can do to turn your relationship next level
To learn how to make things excited again with your girlfriend
And there are much better alternatives that they should do instead
Things you can do to turn your relationship next level
To learn how to make things excited again with your girlfriend
But that's too much to all put into one thread though
If you want to learn how to prevent yourself from making stupid break ups
And what you can do instead to make things very exciting with your gf
Keep on reading here: https://nielsknk.substack.com/publish/post/31259249
Members only
If you want to learn how to prevent yourself from making stupid break ups
And what you can do instead to make things very exciting with your gf
Keep on reading here: https://nielsknk.substack.com/publish/post/31259249
Members only
