The women who like to entertain respectability politics & push the expectation of "modesty" on other women are masking their insecurities & viewing of other "immodest" women as opponents in a "competition" for men: in this essay, I will

I wholeheartedly believe that once you stop feeling threatened by the inevitable existence of other beautiful, sexy, or badass women in the world, your life, your self-esteem, & your relationships will be so much more healthy. Love yourself.

We've all been there, sis. We're conditioned to do this from an early age. I hope you outgrow it & let it go. You'll be grateful once you do