Thread by @NII_DO_THIS, So it was a bright day in september on UCC campus when [...]

So it was a bright day in september on UCC campus when i decided to attend my first COMM skills class. Not gonna lie, i felt reluctant going to learn adjectives, prepositions and their siblings but i had no choice( so i thought as a fresher)
Got up from bed, showered and left

for lecture. Would never forget, my class was at G12

.
As someone who is time concious i got there 30 minutes before time and took my seat. People later joined and lectures begun. 1 hour into the lecture( me not paying attention) a thick beautiful girl came in rushing

She sat by me and greeted. I was stunned by her beauty.!!!
Whattt!!!! "Afor take ein number" i told myself. Immediatly class was over she left hurriedly and i didnt see her again.Planned to come late the next class just to see her.
I then left for an Economics class

The LORD works in (rey) mysterious ways. I could not believe it. In the ocean of my view sat the same lady. I immediately sat by her till lecturez ended. Made it a constant habit to sit by her everyday till i became good friends with her.
Man ma boys say naaaa wrong meat..

First UCC quiz came and i just blew the paper in economics. She didnt really do well. She saw my results and immediately drew closer to me. We became learning mates.
We were always going to the library together, some lectures together and even grocery shopping together.
Chef

BRO, we started talking long hours on phone and in 5 weeks of knowing her i already fallen.
Eiii.....my vision of no gf and 1st class all became I LOVE YOU FELICITY at evening phone talks.
City was what i used to call her..
Ewurade na she get ass ( assamankese saf small)

Anyways fast forward i proposed in level 200 1st semester and she said yes....Herrr i was soo happy
My hostel was at SRC and she was at Nkrumah but love no get kilometres......Adey escort am from science go ein hostel before ago gally go SRC.....
This go on for sometime

Asay chale na adey love am
I introduced her to my mom
First love ni nkwasias3m

Fast foward i heard rumours she was going out with a guy who got position and things. Adey call this girl den she dey give me attitude.
Once at shuttle station i was begging for forgiveness

For nothing i had done
I begged for 3 months with no response. Chale ma GPA all spoil that sem. This girl lef me basaaaa
She no give reason why oooo
Herrrr BONO girl just lef me basaaaa a day before i would write my STATS AND PROB PAPER( had D for the first time)

And bad results for the rest..
Chale astresss basaaaa
Abeg for 4 continuous month but naaaaa she no do
Not knowing she come get some nigga he get car wey he dey pay...
Chale ma taya

CHALE NA ADEY SING
MR EAZI , BRUNO MARS dema songs all.
Ma life turn UCC GOT TALENT EVERY EVENI

Anyways all was out of love
Literally would do anything to keep her. I had plans like every guy who is in love does. Plans of trips(tho i had little money a that time), dinner dates and otherz. She was my world and it caught my friends by suprise.
I literally made her

an integral part of my life.
So like i was saying, after begging for 4 months, she out of the blue responded saying she loved me and that she was sorry.
Man i was the happiest.
I couldn't believe it.
Took her on 4 dates in a span of 10days and all. Everything was getting

back to normal till on the day of her birthday.
I called her in the morning to wish her a happy birthday and this girl didnt pick up. I sent her text messages and all no reply
I had made dinner reservations at Ridge hotel with money i tool from my parents.

So in the evening i go to her hostel and she lyinh on her bed. This girl claimed she was sick. I felt sorry.
Told her i would come back with her gifts, stayed a while and left.
It was a tuesday i think!!
I left for HUTCHLAND.....
Chale i was there nooor ma guy said

"NO BE SHE THAT"
I said ooo naaaaaa
I could not believe it
This girl was at hutchland with a man she claimed was bugging her and had kids....Chaley ma heart dropped. Boy i went to the hostel straight and slept

People closed to me dont know this
I got depressed for like 2 months
Always indoors
Not bathing
Missing lectures and a whole lot of stupid things...life was so bad for me....Took the grace of God and a great friend i met in level 400 to help me out of this situation

I cut ties with her to preserve my sanity. Had to do it for myself
My GPA that sem fell to 2.5
Never told anyone
Luckily for me i had a great CGPA from the other semesters of hard work. I STARTED LIFE AFRESH
Life was difficult tho

She was in my econs class till 400 so it was difficult not seeing her
But after a while i became used to it
Guys laughed at me not thinking about how emotionally i was 10% and dying inside...Like i said God is good

Fast foward i became a Mathematics T.A and had not heard from her in more than a year and half. Out of the blue someone video calls me. I PICK the phone and she was the one smiling
My heart melted, but i was over her!
She said she missed me and wanted to see me

She was coming to campus
I declined the gesture
Mind you i have knelt before in her room to beg her. I literally told her friends i loved her so they should beg her for me but naaaaa
Once at the science station i knelt donw to beg her and this girl hit my hand

Chale we try before
I am not ashamed of this story cos it shaped me.
Personally it made me not open up to love again.
4 relationships after her and all never worked out.(some issues like genotype tho)
I realised i really don't want to love in summary.....
For now SINGLE IS OKAY

Ps: i learnt how to dj, shoot and edit videos all within my depressed moments..
Fell in love with basketball.
That kept me going
I have heard a gf tell me I LOVE BBALL than her and i could not agree less cos it never broke my heart.....LEBRON MADE ME LOVE LIFE

I once couldnt't keep all the emotions in me and cried like a baby in the night in my room.
This was when my friends realised it was serious than they thought
Haha GREAT TIMES

Let me add this
To all the guys going through heartbreaks and think that is the end of the world please it is not.
Pour you emotions to a counsellor or close friend. Don't keep it all in
Depression from hearbreaks are real
Seek help

Let me shamelessly plug in my friend's(counselor) business
She does bookkeeping for small businesses
IG: GOODBOOKSCONSULT
Twitter : @asiedu_danso

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