*Thread* - Manipulation & Toxicity
EVERYONE is manipulative
EVERYONE is manipulative
Most manipulation = coping mechanisms done unconsciously
Very few people can consciously manipulate
To consciously manipulate would require:
- Strategic thinking
- Solid acting
- Understanding of social dynamics
- Overcoming social conditioning to remove fear of doing 'bad'
Very few people can consciously manipulate
To consciously manipulate would require:
- Strategic thinking
- Solid acting
- Understanding of social dynamics
- Overcoming social conditioning to remove fear of doing 'bad'
Everyone manipulates
EVERYONE
It's human
Just because you're not consciously aware of it doesn't mean it's not happening
Ultra light example:
- Intentionally not texting back or delaying a few hours
This is manipulating the perception to appear busy/less invested
EVERYONE
It's human
Just because you're not consciously aware of it doesn't mean it's not happening
Ultra light example:
- Intentionally not texting back or delaying a few hours
This is manipulating the perception to appear busy/less invested
Heavy Example:
- You communicate your needs & explain how something they're doing upsets you:
Then they reply upset at you & frame it as
- You complaining is being ungrateful
- You're the one with the problem not them
- The fact you even brought it up is selfish
- You communicate your needs & explain how something they're doing upsets you:
Then they reply upset at you & frame it as
- You complaining is being ungrateful
- You're the one with the problem not them
- The fact you even brought it up is selfish
It can be your best friend, your parents, a date, a stranger
EVERYONE manipulates to a extent
'toxic' people are the ones who do multiple heavy forms & do them often
Cool/chill 'down to earth' people rarely do any, usually only limited to the ultra light forms
EVERYONE manipulates to a extent
'toxic' people are the ones who do multiple heavy forms & do them often
Cool/chill 'down to earth' people rarely do any, usually only limited to the ultra light forms