Know how to learn from peoples mistakes & wins without being a vicarious spectator. If a man you don't know gets divorce raped or wins alimony, why're you affected?
As men we are meant to CONQUER, CREATE & COMPETE! Leave the talking to the women on the sidelines and as much...

I enjoy sports like most men, I'm not going to fight over another rich mans honour for hours more than I invest energy in my own life. I'm not going to argue or celebrate too much on behalf of other people who's decisions don't affect me.

"Messi is the greatest" "Ronaldo is the greatest" "Jordan is the greatest" Some fun debate about sports doesn't hurt, but when you're more emotionally invested in another mans greatness more than your own...Theres a problem. That's not a mans position.

Celebrity gossip & news is a womans thing. Representation is a womans thing. "I feel proud as a black woman cause Micheal B Jordan is dating one of us" WTF!? They want to sit on the sidelines & feel counted without participating. Let them...

But I'll be damned if a man does that crap. We don't seek representation or live through other men, we stand up & are counted OURSELVES! Don't invest too much emotion into irrelevant topics that don't build you. We don't have vicarious pride we have pride of our OWN.

Remain updated on current events, learn from other peoples situations... But don't ever feel counted or deeply invested in someone else's honour as they who don't know you or care about you but are STILL living the life you want... Go get it yourself. Be bold, be counted, be MEN.