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i've always considered "stop your hobbies after we marry" to be a massive red flag
if your partner can't respect your individuality on something as simple as hobbies, who's to say they'll respect you in any other way once the honeymoon phase is over? https://twitter.com/seungcheoland_/status/1348098133771706370
if your partner can't respect your individuality on something as simple as hobbies, who's to say they'll respect you in any other way once the honeymoon phase is over? https://twitter.com/seungcheoland_/status/1348098133771706370
one thing is to sell your things out of economic issues; it's painful but necessary
but selling it when you don't need to sell anything just because your partner can't accept your hobbies? miss me with that nonsense
but selling it when you don't need to sell anything just because your partner can't accept your hobbies? miss me with that nonsense
if it's a healthy hobby and isn't causing you trouble, i don't see the reason to drop it
and even if it's not healthy, this is something for therapy; "you can't do things for yourself and that's it" just sounds possessive and controlling
and even if it's not healthy, this is something for therapy; "you can't do things for yourself and that's it" just sounds possessive and controlling
as romantic as it seems, devpting your entire existence to your partner isn't exactly healthy or harmless
even more so if your partner DEMANDS it
so, if your partner ever suggest you to abandon your hobbies when you two marry... consider it a red flag, okay?
even more so if your partner DEMANDS it
so, if your partner ever suggest you to abandon your hobbies when you two marry... consider it a red flag, okay?
even more so if THEY aren't willing to abandon their hobbies and invent excuses as to why theirs are more important than yours.
that's a MASSIVE red flag and a sign they consider you to be inferior to them and aren't willing to have an equal relationship based on compromises
that's a MASSIVE red flag and a sign they consider you to be inferior to them and aren't willing to have an equal relationship based on compromises
tl;dr if someone demands you to abandon your hobbies to stay with them (in special if they aren't willing to abandon their own), that's not a good sign
