1/ Today I refused to see a client I’ve been seeing regularly for over a year due to repeated boundary pushing (not accepting when I say I’m busy and can’t see him), repeatedly asking for unprotected sex and trying to push for services like Greek without paying extra.

I politely

2/ explained my reasons for not seeing him, he completely denied ever doing any of these things, gaslit me and played the victim: “why are you doing this”

Anyone who knows me knows I am very tolerant and easygoing, but there are certain behaviours I won’t tolerate, even from

3/ “regulars”. If he’s sincerely apologised I might have reconsidered but he chose to make me feel like the situation was all in my head.